Me and my now ex were together for 7 years and have a child together. We had a typical relationship filled with the normal ups and downs, good time and bad times. In 2012, he and Jen became Facebooks friends. At first I didn’t think anything of it then I noticed Jen commenting and liking almost every post and picture that he posted. I also noticed that he was reciprocating the same amount of attention on her Facebook posts and pictures which wasn’t typical for him. I questioned him and he said they were just friends. I thought it was weird that they acted so friendly towards each other considering we had been together for 7 years and I had never met her before. || A few months later I saw her at a casino and introduced myself. I let her know that I was his fiancé and that I didn’t appreciate whatever was going on between them. Weeks later he posted on Facebook about an argument we had and Jen’s response was to get rid of the negative in his life meaning me. I made him delete the post but began to dig deeper into his relationship with her. I found out that they had been meeting up at bars when he was supposed to be with his guy friends. Apparently she was trying to play the concerned friend role and offering him some”counseling sessions”. Last time I checked she isn’t a counselor and he is in a relationship so she completely knew what she was doing was wrong. He moved out not long after with a guy friend. I thought things were starting to get better and that we were going to work things out because we were spending a lot of time together including holidays, milestones and still having sex together. He would frequently stay late or stay the night after he moved. || Turns out I was being played because he was still lying to me about who he was hanging out with and where he was going. I suspected something was up one night after he told me he was going out to a bar with a guy friend in a different town. I decided to go to the bar I thought he was really at and approached both him and Jen. I let her know that we were still playing house and that he was still sleeping with me. She just stood there like she was dumb and he just tried to lie about what was still going on. || It disgusts me that certain females think it’s ok to involve themselves with someone else’s fiancé and that they have no respect for the children involved. What’s even more disgusting is that people have told me that she has even slept with her own cousin. I don’t know what causes someone to be so desperate but she is truly disgusting.