Well where to start in January 2013 my husband and I had our first child. Like any first time parents we had some stress or what I thought was stress from having a newborn. See he was working two jobs one full time and one part time. I wasn’t able to work due to the fact of having a newborn but attended on going back to work after our vacation to South Carolina in July of 2013. Darning this time I started noticing little odd things he was doing. He wouldn’t come home in between jobs and would stay late claiming he had to stay over but every time he would get his check it would never add up he would always give me an excuse that they shorted him and he would talk to someone about it. In June of 2013 I went to Oklahoma to visit my mother I of course I taken the kids with me. Before I left his behavior became weird he was always on his phone, starting fights with me over the stupidest stuff, at night he wouldn’t even help out with the baby. I was hoped that with a little time apart it would bring us back together.When I was at my mom’s it was so hard to get ahold of him. I would have to call his mom to ask her to have him call me. He seemed to always rush me off the phone, times when we would sit aside to skype each other he would “forget”. He said that he was at work but when I would call his job just to say hi he wouldn’t be there. It seemed like our trip was pulling us apart. I couldn’t wait to get home just to reconnect. When we were on our way back to Ohio not once did he call and ask us if we even left or how the trip back home was going. When we arrived at the station he didn’t even help us get our bags or take the baby while we carried our own bags. When I got home a few things were different pictures that were hanging up were taken down he said they fell down, our bed covers were changed, and he was clean shaved and actually looking good I thought it was because I was coming home. As Time passed he became closed off and pulled away from the family.Finally our vacation to South Carolina things were going to look up it what I was thinking..lol… Since we were going with his family he was in charge of planning everything… He waited until the last min. to get the dates we were going to go, he told his bosses last minute we were going on vacation. His boss (removed) said he couldn’t give him some of the days off because they were having this big Fourth of July fireworks display and that he need everyone to work on Sunday. So, when he told me the week before we were going to leave that we weren’t going to leave until Monday when we were supposed to leave the Friday before I was upset. None the less I was just ready to have some one on one time. That Monday he looked so down like someone had killed his dog I kept asking him what was wrong and if there was anything I could do he just said he was ready to relax on the beach and get away from all the stress of working. When we arrived it was beautiful weather we were across the street from the ocean you could smell the water GOOD TIMES WERE COMING. The whole time I couldn’t get him off his phone I can’t remember him not with it. His mom and dad were amazing they watched the baby while we went out and walked around. Nothing changed he was on his phone the whole time and it seemed like he just didn’t want me around. The whole trip was a bust.Shortly after we got back I just wasn’t feeling so good so I went to the doctors and that is when she told me that we were going to have another baby. We went to see how far along we were and found out we were 15 weeks and it was a boy. We were both excited. A few weeks later at my ultrasound I found out our son was going to have a cleft nose and lip. I tried to call him but same old crap I got no answer. After telling him it was like he didn’t care. He would never talk to me about it or anyone else. I thought he just need time I was left to handle it on my own he stopped going to appointments with me and just wasn’t around for me.One day I couldn’t find my phone to email some pics of the baby to my mother and I wanted to download this free texting app on his phone. The moment I opened his email he jumped up and tried to take it from me… I knew then he was hiding something I seen emails after emails of their sick affair. Then everything came together. Right after we had given birth to our daughter they were fucking each other. The talked about living their spouses and having kids together. He tried to deny everything and say they weren’t fucking but you can’t tell me your not when you’re writing about it. As they night went on he started coming cleaning he said that they had sex while I was in OK she had brought her son over to our home to have sex because her husband was home from Iraq or Afghanistan and that he was a former Marine. My dad is a Marine POW savior you’re never not a Marine I was so mad. What wife would do this to her husband that is serving? I asked him how many times was she at my house he told me all the time when I wasn’t home. I asked where was our daughter he said they would turn the tv on for her son and put our daughter in her bed while they fucked each other in ours. He told me that he was never going to leave but he did feel bad for her because her husband would find a job. That she would use that to trap him into having the affair. I found emails between them when we were on vacation about how sorry she was that she couldn’t get away to give him a kiss before he left with me to SC. Here I thought he was just so stressed about working and that he needed time to relax.. He told me they would meet each other at her trailer park and have sex in his car and that he didn’t have any condoms. He didn’t think that was sick. They would meet at LCCC and have sex in the car at night.. || After reading all the emails I didn’t find one where he talked about us having another child and the problems we were having. He told me that he didn’t want to tell her because that was ours that was just between us.. REALLY… when asked why he fucked the whore he said because he needed someone to talk to…REALLY.. on top of all this his family knew about it and when I asked him how they felt or what they said to him all he told me was they said I have to make up my mind on what I want to do… two kids and all you have to tell him is you have to make up your mind…. What family does that???