Well Iíll start by saying, I thought I had a great marriage. We had been together 18 years and married for 17. We have 3 wonderful kids. || We both came from broken homes due to our fathers being cheaters. So before I even agreed to marry him we talked about cheating, values and morals. Every year he would make the same promises to me and our kids that he would never lie and cheat on his family. || I believe it all start in December of 2012 maybe even sooner. He used to work with her years ago and she found him on facebook. At the beginning we talked about it and I really didn’t have a problem with them being friends. I trusted him with every ounce of my soul. Now looking back I never saw the signs! My husband stopped going to Church, always had his phone on him at all times, and changed his password on our computer. He always had an excuse. He also hated me having friends and would accuse me of cheating. || On May 6, 2013 he left saying he wasn’t happy anymore. Needless to say I was a mess. He was my everything! He had told me he was going to stay with a friend. So I went looking for him, of course he wasn’t there! I did find him at her house! I never thought he could be so mean! The things he has said to me and even threatened me. My best friend who I thought didn’t like me anymore due to all the shit my husband had said, came and helped me find out all the shit he was doing. Phone records, text messages, I even took the computer to be cleaned, and ask them to print anything they found with his or her name in it. When I went to pick up the computer the said they did find a few things but would not print them due to the content being pornograph in nature. This didn’t surprise me. Two years ago he had lost his social work license for watching porn and jacking off at work after hours.! Now looking back he was a real winner!! He never could hold a job for more than 2 years, always would be someone elses fault. I always was the responsible one and would have to try to get more hours at work or break down and ask my family for help. || I always forgave him. || And here is the story of the homewrecking douche of a whore! Shes a real piece of work! Being from a small town I found out she loves married men. My marriage is the 3rd she has broken up in our area. Money is very important to her. She knows what to say and what to do to get a weak minded fool of a man to fall for her. And just a warning she has lived in Washington state and Texas, so I’m sure there are more ex wives out their! || I know karma is working! She is a crazy ass whore, and the ex is stuck with her! In the divorce all he got was his piece of shit car and personal stuff. Which all fit in his jetta! The car breaks down all the time and he lost all his friends and only has her and his mommy. Oh and her crazy brother (Removed). || He has since lost his job! But no surprise there! He has never put his kids or me for that matter first! Since he left I have kept track of his visits and phone calls to his kids. Pitiful! Our kids or done! Sad but after counseling and all the shit their dad had done and said, they know what kind of person he has become. || To all the women out there that have been cheated on, don’t blame your self!! It has taken me awhile and counseling to forgive myself for believing and trusting this piece of shit man! I was told by countless people I need to forgive him, well thats just not true! God can forgive him. || And if my ex reads this….she’s done with you, your just too stupid to know!! She’s back on facebook trolling for the next idiot! || The good news is now I’m free!