I was married to my ex husband for 5 years. We have three wonderful kids together. Last October I was working in a bakery and we needed a sitter since he was working as well. So I asked a friend of mine to watch my kids. No big deal it was great till he came home saying he spent all night messaging her on Facebook and I couldn’t read it. I let it go and continued on with our lives. || In November we started to have problems. I noticed a change in him and her. She wasn’t watching my kids anymore but I noticed he would ask this woman who’s husband was deployed if her shower head was working to get her off. I confronted both of them numerous times. They denied it saying they were like brother and sister. || We split the week of Thanksgiving after a melt down of mine. However here is the kicker, we were still sleeping together and trying to fix our broken home. Thanksgiving he didn’t come home and called one of my friends to cover for him. That Saturday the 24th he left his phone after saying me and him were done. I saw texts, phone calls, pictures of then together. They had been having this affair since October. I left and let him have his piece of army trash.