So this all started last summer when I was pregnant with me and my boyfriend of 6yrs the 2nd child. We were having a hard time because he wanted to go party every night we weren’t getting along. We had decided we just needed a few nights apart so he went to stay at his mom’s whom I was really close with, bout 5 minutes away. Well I had a feeling something was going on between him and mutual friend of ours who had just broken up with her boyfriend of 5yrs. They had gone camping with a handful of our friends I didn’t go, didn’t want to sleep on the ground being 5months pregnant. We were suppose to talk abd work things out that Monday when they got back, well in the mean time at camp he made out with her and ignored me when he got back. || He brought her around a good friend of mine and she immediately called me when they left. I confronted him about it and he lied. He then came to our house and proceeded to tell me he didn’t know anymore and the typical bull shit any guy says. Well a week later we decided to work on our relationship bc of the two boys we have and I was having complications with the pregnancy. I asked him multiple times about f jessica bc I was hearing rumors and again I was told they were just friends. Well we went to a friends house for a fire one night and a friend accidentally called me jessica well needless to say I flipped out, I wouldn’t talk to him for a few days. He came over to see our son and we talked told me a bunch more bs and I believed him bc I trusted him to be honest. Well we ended up back together at the end of August. We were doing amazing my pregnancy was. Cleared of any problems, when our 2nd son was born he was in the intensive care nursery for a week. I had him in october, everything was great. In about November I had an argument with Jessica’s best friend about what happened so I cornered my boyfriend and he finally spilled it, or so I thought. He had admitted to sleeping with her and how it was the biggest mistake f his life, and ho sleeping with her he felt gross and blah blah blah. Well needless to say I also found out she had an abortion of a baby that she was pregnant with, by her ex she had left. And how my boyfriend didn’t sleep with her until after she had the abortion. My boyfriend proceeded to call her fat sloppy, easy and a nasty pig. I was also told how he wanted to fix our family and how he was sorry etc. Well it us now June of 2014 and we are together working on our relationship and being a family and I’m finally deciding to let go of war happened and move on bc I need to for myself and my family but lesson learned to always go with your gut instinct bc it’s normally right. Now let me just point this out I’m 25 I work my butt off as a nurse and take care of our house and kids, I’m not conceited but I know I’m pretty and have a decent body and I’m not a skank, only been with 3 men. And this girl is 27 or 28 no job drives a rusty neon, lives at home, going no where, drinks every night pretty much, and admits on fb she looks like a chinless elephant.