My husband and I got together in 2005, married 2008, and been separated a majority of it due to his job field (construction). He met the homewrecker in a bar in 2011. He went home with her after telling her we were getting divorced. Lie. She didn’t even know him but still had sex with him which makes her an automatic whore. Anyway I find out about this in 2012 march to be exact when me his sister, her daughter, our son came for a visit. I started getting a random text message saying it was a friend or his please don’t leave be a good wife. He’s going to kill himself. He’s never been suicidal before. I confront him. He tells me with my son in his arms that he cheated on me. I grab my son and leave. || The entire time I dig for the truth between the both of them. Truth was it has been going on since they met. In my trailer, at her home on his way home. Etc. I also found out while I was doing school work she was in my house we just got, not even 1 week old holding our son. That was it. I decided to divorce him. She came to my home and confronted me! Even tried to say she was pregnant but gave herself an abortion. No proof. She’s crazy. He yelled at her cussed at her. Anyway he begged me to stay that it would never happen again. That he knows he messed up. I loving him more than myself stayed going against everything I believed in. So months pass, everything was going fine and then out of the blue in February he ask me for a divorce says he’s not happy. Okay, fine. We discuss assets and child custody. Oh and I am 8 months pregnant at this time with our daughter by the way. || May he comes home so we can talk. Tells me to sit down that I’m going to be pissed. He says that she’s back, works at his company since November and they started sleeping together in December again. That when he came home he realized he wanted his family. That he wanted me more then he realized. That she wouldn’t leave him alone that he was weak. That he wanted to be a man. Please give him a chance. Once again me being a sucker fell for it. That was in May of this year. He played it off but her Facebook said otherwise. June 25 I had this gut wrenching feeling I needed to make a surprise trip down there. So I did. I walked in on them. Her without pants and my husband in his boxers. At first he was afraid then he became smug and very cold. We went through every lie, everything down to him giving her a ring him re-proposing to me. I found out he was abusive toward her. He’s never even laid a finger on me. He told us to both get out. I stayed and so did she. I had to listen to all of these things he did for her he never did for me. She had also been living with him. I was getting ripped apart. She left and I stayed there in shock of all the lies. Then he said please tell me you still love me… Wtf?! I said no I hate you! I feel no love for you anymore! I left I had enough. Then he text me please stay. I want you. I want my kids. Blah blah… I detached myself this time. My hearts not in it. || He claims to love me that me coming there was what he needed to make it stop. That they talked because of work even though they no longer work for the same company. They were also using different numbers. So I wouldn’t know. Before I found out he said she won’t leave him alone that he’s told her to and now she’s harassing me big time. I asked her nicely then got mean and she doesn’t seem to care. I have two kids with him but love isn’t enough anymore. She’s started harassing me the last couple of days. I confront my husband but he says she won’t stop and did I mention the trailer he’s living in she got the loan for? Yeah I will never be rid of her it feels like. Like I told my husband she will never be a part of my kids’ lives. She knew he was Married. She knew he wasn’t going to leave me but she wasn’t about to leave him alone. He said that she always made him feel bad and blamed him for her being broke. He felt like he owed her a place to stay. I heard her say it was his fault myself. She also said she was just trying to comfort him because she was his friend. I told her you don’t comfort someone by spreading your legs. I also told her that I’m his wife mother of his kids and she would never be anything more than a homewrecking whore he picked up on a bar. This woman has no moral and she’s religious quoting bible verses hahaha!!! || I love him but I’m tired. It’s not worth it, but I’m torn because I also feel like I’m damaged goods and no one will ever want me again and I’ll never trust again. Stay and take it or risk being alone and I told them both she can have him but she won’t get my kids. That will be a cold day in hell. He can be a part of their life but she won’t because I’m filing a restraint order. I told him to speak now because if there is any message since June 25 of I love you or miss you it will work against me but I’ll still get it and he says there’s not so I don’t know. Things like this shouldn’t happen! Men should respect their wives. People should take their vows seriously ( I didn’t believe in divorce I believed in for better or for worse) and women need to not be whore and respect women. The bad part is she just doesn’t care who she hurts. People are so miserable in their lives they try to take from someone else it’s sad. Real sad.