Please see She’s a Homewrecker, Leonor (Lee) Moncloa . My low life of a husband is a coward, liar, cheat, and thief..and that does not just pertain to the affair. I don’t know if we will make it it, I have been advised not to do anything for a year. He is a people pleaser, and incapable of telling the truth. || He is brilliant, but has no street smarts, and thinks it is everyone’s fault but his own. He has no backbone. Claims he loved me and would never leave me. Wanted to end the affair, but would be still involved if I had not caught him on our 34th anniversary.