I got married at 17yrs old to the man I loved with all of my being his name is”Pepe” Jose Angel Corona Sanchez he was 25yrs old. Pepe is the only man I’ve ever been with/had sex with Pepe is Mexican and lied to me about his US citizenship to get me to marry him. When I asked about his citizenship he answered that he had a”green card” while we were dating and showed me all the papers and cards he used for ID. I did not knew they were fakes. Then a few months later he came and told me we needed to see a lawyer for him to get his green card/US citizen. Dummy me went along with getting him legal because I was having his baby and did not want our child to grow up without a father. Since then he was given US citizenship, we’ve had four beautiful children, been together for 18yrs/married 17 and I just learned he’s been cheating for years. Her nick name’s Chula my husband will not tell me the whore’s name. She is an illegal alien living in Dearborn Heights,Michigan. Lately she’s been driving his truck around because her p.o.s. car is broken down, she has no license. They met at his jobs at different Mexican restaurants that he’s the manager of (removed) through the years. She has two small children that he tells me are both under 5yrs old and he tells me they are not his but he is with them more than he is with our children (since he will not discuss anything concerning the whore I know nothing about her or their time as a couple).Chula knows he is married to me and that we are not anywhere near divorced. We visited/visit him at his job several times a month every since he started to work in the restaurants. I think he’s been with her for over 5yrs because my children told me that she followed him from Ohio to Michigan when he moved around 5yrs ago. Then 2yrs ago my husband moved me and our kids to Michigan so we’d be with him daily instead of him driving back and forth from Ohio to Michigan. Within weeks of us moving here he stopped coming home. He said he had to work late, he was drunk, he was just going to stay with the guys’ place because he did not feel like making the drive home and other excuses. Since I was a housewife and stay at home mother I believed the things he told me. When I would ask him if he was seeing/being with a woman he’d answer me with”no I love you, I am only with you, I want our family together forever and you’re crazy for asking”. Though my body told me he was lying I would ignore it and think maybe I am crazy for thinking that he’s cheating.That went on for years until this past April when I found proof and confronted him with my proof. On Sunday he came home with a laptop that he said he was thinking of buying from the guys. Well he would not let me use his laptop so when he passed I started looking through it. I found a bunch of some woman’s pictures of her kids, giving birth and other family pix. I then looked at the owner’s info and it said Corona’s! On Monday morning he woke up, got ready for work and left taking the computer with him. On Tuesday he came back with the laptop and I confronted him on where the computer had come from and after lying more for hours he answered”fine okay I’m with her. He would not answer any of my questions about her or their relationship or anything I asked him. I got mad and threw the laptop outside into the ice/snow that was on our sidewalk and broke it (I should’ve kept it but was so mad I just could not think right). I also threw him out of my house! Until that Sunday we’d been having sex regularly and often so I do not know why he cheated.My whore husband is still with his whore (what else do you call a woman that sleeps with a married man or the married man that cheats?). He will not tell me where he is living with her, her name or any other details. I cannot keep his secrets as he’s always done. I am tired of his lies. Even our family members whom I thought loved me knew all this cheating was going on and never said anything to me about it! I have now filed for divorce and waiting for the ball to start rolling along. Pepe keeps asking me to take him back but I do not want him as nasty as he is and I deserve better. I think that since he’s 43 yrs old he is trying to be young again or since he wasn’t much of a father to our kids he is wanting to start a new family with Chula because I had four difficult labors I had to get my tubes tied or risk my life if I went through another labor (I wanted for him to get fixed but he is ignorant and wouldn’t do it) and Chula can have more kids than the two she has now. Since he got with her he was also f**king me and telling me he loved me. Now I know all this time he was only saying theses things to have sex with me. If I’d known/had proof of him cheating I’d thrown him out years ago! For years he was f**king us both daily though not at the same time it could’ve been just minutes apart with him showering between the times he was with me or her without me knowing of her and his cheating. || I sorta feel sorry for her because she fell for his lies worse than I did atleast I got his name through marriage where she’ll have only him. He will not be faithful to her at all every time he’s here he wants to have sex and if he couldn’t be faithful to me his wife why would he be true to her? I never cheated and I do not want my man to cheat so since he did I say goodbye. 18yrs gone down the drain and I will be taking care of our kids no matter where he is! He has never cared for me only took my virginity, married me to get his green card and make four kids he barely sees because work and Chula is more important to him. Somedays I wish he just take his whore ass and go away. I never thought I’d be divorcing at this time in my life but I am going to move on with my life.