My husband and I have been together for 4 years and married 2. I met him when I was 17 and we both just hit it off, it was amazing. Iíll never forget when I first met him; he is also the only man Iíve ever been with. Anyways after we got married a year later I got pregnant and he just turned 21. Well he went through this horrible drunk phase until our daughter was 2 weeks old. I left to stay with his family for help I was dealing with postpartum depression and mastitis. Things got really rocky between us and he kept telling me not to go back to work and thatís because he was having sex with our 19 year old coworker who has 2 kids and had sex with half the work staff. || I found out in April 2013 that he was cheating. I went on his phone and got on his email and saw nude photos and messages about meeting up for sex. I was shaking and so angry. He lied for months about having sex with her. I called up our coworker and said hey I got your nude photos and she denied it and said they never had sex and she never sent him photos and I said how do you think I got your number? || Well 4 months later he admitted he had sex with her. He lied and made up so many stories that didnít make any sense. All he had to do was come clean as soon as I saw the emails and texts. He claims he had sex with her only twice in December and our daughter was only 2 months by the way. He said he never saw her after that but I know heís lying. He was planning on having sex with her on Easter this year and even on our 2 year anniversary. || I donít care about her what I care about is my husband and why he didnít prevent this. He doesnít see her anymore but he chose to cheat. He made the vows, I donít care if a woman is all over him bottom line he had a choice and he chose to be selfish. He broke my heart, and Iíll never be the same woman I was after going through all this pain and torture. The lies is what hurts me the most out of all of this.