My husband and I started to have marital problems when I decided to talk to him about our relationship in 2008. I was pregnant with my 2nd child when he told me things were not working out between us. He told me he was no longer in-love with me so I asked him to leave me or just work things out. He chose to work things out. My child was born on 2009, I thought things were going fine but he started to work late hours or just not coming home for a day or two. That situation continued for a year. In 2010 I finally asked him to leave the house. He left the house and in 2011 he came back and things started to improve with our relationship until one day I found a baby girl picture in his car, I asked him and he said it was a friends daughter. Two weeks later I found a Valentine’s Day card given to him by a”Julie Vasquez” telling him how much she loved him. I asked him who she was he said she was nobody. Next day I searched on FB for her name and I found a pic of the same baby girl picture I got from his car a week prior. || I contacted her and she told me they were on a relationship for two years but she left him when she found out he was married. I continued to look for info and I realized they were together since my pregnancy in 2008 and the entire time she knew about him being married. She even told him to leave me and not to worry about my kids. That kid’s can grow without a daddy by their side with no problem. She even used her daughter to try to convince him to stay with her saying that her daughter wanted him to be her dad. Note: we have 3 boys and he has always wanted a little girl. He left her to be with me but she wouldn’t give up. During the entire 3 years of their on an off relationship they had she tried really hard to use her two kids to win my husband over. She even asked him for the chance to prove him she was better than me and that she could make him happier.