My ex-husband and I met in 2008. I was 18 and he was 28. We were working at the same place. I was pregnant with my first daughter at the time. As soon as she was born and I returned to work, we immediately starting going on dates together. We officially started dating March 20, 2009. He had three kids from a previous relationship and I had just had my daughter also from a previous relationship. My daughter was 5 weeks old when we started dating. I was head over heels in love with this man. I had never been in love in my entire life. Didn’t even really know what love was until I met him. || After a few months of dating, he had gotten a 3 bedroom apartment and my daughter and I moved in with him and his kids. I was the happiest I had ever been in my life. He raised my daughter as she was his own. He was there when she started crawling; he was there for her first steps and her first words. She called him daddy. That was the only daddy she knew as she had not met her”dad” until she was almost two. She adored him and so did I. He was the greatest man I had ever known. We had a lot of bumpy roads, a lot of ups and downs but we worked through them. We loved each other enough to do that. At least I knew I loved him enough. I now know that the love I felt from him was a complete and utter lie. || Fast forward to 2010. I found out I was pregnant with our first child together. It was a complete shock, I was scared and depressed a lot of the time that I was pregnant. I was young and I already had a little girl, plus he had three children as well. We got engaged around my 20th week of pregnancy. We set a date. August 13, 2011. Four months after our daughter was born. As soon as our little girl took her first breath, I was SO in love with her and our family. Seeing him holding her was the best feeling I have ever felt in my life. My family was FINALLY complete. When we got married, I knew the rest of my life was going to be the best of my life. I loved him and our children with all that I had. Fast forward ten months into our marriage. June 11, 2012. I was lying in bed and he comes in and tells me to wake up. It was 12:15 in the morning. I got up and I wasn’t even fully awake and he tells me he has to tell me something. He told me he was talking to Kailey on Facebook, but he didn’t say anything wrong. To my knowledge, he had blocked this girl and I was confused as to why she was unblocked. I then got a phone call from my sister telling me I needed to check my e-mail. Well, we were at my mom’s house the day before and he had logged into his Facebook and didn’t log out. When my sister got home, she went to get on the computer and all of a sudden she saw this chat pop up on the bottom. (He was logged into our computer at home.) She sat there and she had screen shot EVERYTHING. She e-mailed me all of the screen shots. I sat there in shock and utter disbelief reading what I was. He was telling her he missed her. She missed the smell of him and his sexy body, his tattoos. She was asking him when he would be able to get away from me so she could see him. Of course he had a million excuses and I wasn’t having it. It really killed me, but I packed up the kids at one in the morning, got in the car and left for my mom’s house. I felt like the last 4 years of my life was a f**king lie! || They soon moved in together and they still do live together. I didn’t just lose my husband that day, but my oldest daughter lost the only father she has ever known. He didn’t just cheat on me, but our family. I will never forgive this homewrecker for what she has done to me and my family. I don’t understand how someone can even live with themselves knowing that they ruined a family, a marriage and a friendship. She will never have his heart like I did. EVER. I will love that man until the day I die. But I will NOT put myself through that pain and anguish ever again. I know I have to move on and I am trying every day. I live my life for my girls. I just wish home wreckers like her would think about their”boyfriends” families before themselves. Thanks to her, my daughter only sees her daddy every other weekend and my oldest daughter does not see him anymore. I’m not putting her through the heartbreak I had to go through. Because if he can forget about his wife that quickly, what makes me think he wouldn’t do that about her? F**k that home wrecking slut. I hope she feels horribly shitty for the rest of her pathetic life.