I was happily married to Josh Pace. Kaitea had lost contact with her family for 11 yrs. She found them a week before my 3 yr. wedding anniversary. †Her father on her original birth certificate is his uncle. She was later adopted and didnít see the family for 11 yrs. She came back in the picture as the loving cousin. She stayed at my home to get to know her new little cousins (my 3 children with him) and ended up sleeping with my now ex-husband. || Next day her and my husband left and stayed gone for 5 hrs. I got message saying they were cheating. When they got back told her to get out of my house he followed her. He kept coming back home all the following week and would go back to her as soon as she text. He finally left me for her on our wedding anniversary, took her to our favorite restaurant, bought her roses and rented a hotel room. Now they have a one year old son together and she is cheating on him. She mistreats my children when they are at their house and she has even tried to keep me out of his family and my kids away from his family. || I was told to ignore it because they were only cousins catching up on lost years and come to find out they were sleeping together the whole time. They are now engaged to be married.