I have been married to my soon to be ex for 17 years. Basically since teenagers he was my first everything kiss, date, etc. I had 3 children with him. So I had extra weight and stretch marks. In 2010 he offered to get me a tummy tuck and I lost 70 to look good for him. I was on bed rest for 6 wks after surgery couldn’t do anything so he had to cook clean take care of kids. Then I noticed he had a new friend from work he wanted me to meet and to become my friend too. She always texting my husband and asking him to” help” her with stuff at her house. I noticed he got really distant and became angry at me and our children a lot. But because she was always over at our house too and hanging out with me, I didn’t think anything but they were friends.. Best friends he and her told me. || then I found out that they had been hanging out and sleeping together while I worked night shift as a CNA. I was so angry but couldn’t leave him, I was scared to be alone. He told me he would stop sleeping with her but she would always be his best friend and I had to get used to it. I learned to get along with her and having her over almost every day and things were so messed up everyone in our small town thought we had threesomes since I wash her friend after she f***** my husband. Then after all that .. he made me convinced to have a three some with her.. I was so beaten down and humiliated I felt like she was his wife not me. I forgave them both to only find out he was still sleeping with her behind my back for last 3 years. Then he met a new whore that lived by us and started screwing her. || I finally had enough two weeks and will be fully divorced !!! I wasted my whole life serving him. I’m done.