My husband Neal and I have been together since our 7th grade year in Junior high. 3 days after we graduated high school we were married and my husband went off to boot camp for the Marine Corps. When he graduated from boot camp his mom, dad and I flew out to watch his graduation. During our 4 days there Neal an I conceived our first son. We never had any problems we had the picture perfect marriage and we’re dearly in love with each other, or so I thought. || We now have a total of 3 kids and he is an amazing father. He has never given me any reason to question his faithfulness to our marriage until September 3rd 2013 at 4 AM when a homewrecking whore by the name of Katina Mitchell called his phone and when I had answered she said”good morning baby” I replied with sorry you have the wrong number this is my husband Nealís phone she then quickly hung up the phone. So I thought alright, let’s see who the 5 texts were from since he had been in the shower getting ready for work. When I went to his messages there were a bunch between the two of them. Sexting each other and sending nude pictures as well as talking about that last month when they slept together and how she felt bad for not telling him she had an STD. When my husband came out from the shower I didn’t confront him, instead I waited to do more investigating and had planned to that night since he said he would be home 2 hours late from work due to the fact him and his boss were going to discuss business over dinner and a few drinks. So I waited until he got home and fell asleep to go through his phone once again. She had told him that I answered his phone and how she played it off as a wrong number and how I was stupid for falling for it and how much she had enjoyed dinner and a very tasty and satisfying dessert liking syrups off of his penis. Messages from him were to the same degree and asking about what he should do with our kids and myself that he wanted to leave and didn’t want him and her to be a secret anymore but was afraid of hurting our kids. Her reply was just ditch the bitch and the kids obviously they were a mistake because your with me and I’m all you will ever need and we can make our own kids. || When I confronted him of this I showed him his phone with all the messages. He was pissed that I looked through his”personal belongings” and accused me of fucking around because as he said”only someone guilty of the same crime would point fingers”. I have made arrangements to fly myself and our three kids back to my home state of Washington so that I can get back on my feet and get through the tough times with the support of family and friends. My question is how do I get through this? How do I explain to our 3 young children that daddy doesn’t want them? Or why daddy isn’t around? How do I get over him? I am at a loss for everything right now but trying to hold it together for our kids’ sake. I haven’t even left our home that we have here in Yuba City and he has had her over here f**king her in our bed, and taking her out. Heís talking on the phone to her in front of me †and our children. What do I do?