My story begins in August 2010. I met a girl and†fell in love with her. She had been through a lot in life and had a wild side. I calmed her down, took her in my home. Shortly after the relationship began she became pregnant with twins. I questioned whether or not I was the father but I felt they were mine. || My job in US Army forces relocated me very quickly after we began dating. I took my wife with me because she was homeless and really had no one. Long story short I married her and we had a whirlwind romance. She got in church devoted herself and her issues to The Lord and she became an amazing wife and mother. Our marriage was amazing and things went great until this scum bag came into the picture. She had been”friends” with him before we were together. When I met her she was homeless and had no one I really have no idea where these friends where. In any case this scum bag got himself thrown in jail. My wife changed instantly she would sit and write him letters almost daily mail him money etc. I knew she cared for him more than a friend but I ignored it. || We moved back home in April, which is the exact time this scum bag got out if jail. I had made some mistakes in the marriage but we were working on it. She hung out with him. I was dumb enough to allow her and our twins to sleep at his house, well actually his parentsí house. One day she came home and told me that she’s in love with him and wants to be with him and we separated he broke up with her weeks later and she came running back to me I took pity on her and tried to work it out. We lasted about three months her mind and heart was on someone else she even called me the wrong name during sex. Even though she tried to convince me nothing was going on. I knew there was and broke it off and have found someone that I am happy with. || They tried again recently, he broke it off and I had to find her after an attempt at suicide. This man ruined my marriage and he just wanted a piece of ass. My wife is very naive and I’m sure that he told her that he loved her and all kinds of bs. During the phase where the two of them claimed to be friends this man looked me in the eye, shook my hand, and even had the nerve to attend my kidsí birthday party. I am 90 percent sure something was going on. I’m also sure that he prayed on my wife’s naÔve-ness. If this man starts hanging around your wife or girlfriend watch out. He has no problems destroying families and hurting everyone involved. My wife has no one has far as friends and family are concerned. She is now left alone and I can’t go back to her, even though itís hard. || She will also be exposed at a later date. I think most of the problem was this man that couldn’t stay away from a married woman and destroyed lives. I am a soldier Sargent first class and this trash was a specialist for the National Guard. That also bothers me soldiers should never mess with another soldiers wife.