About a month before my (now ex) husband and I’s 6th year anniversary, I caught him in our house, with family pictures and pictures of our kids hanging on the wall, with this skank. Let me give you a little back story first. My husband always needed ‘approval’ from other women. He loved the attention he got from them. I’d always catch him exchanging naughty pictures with other women. It upset me, but I stayed. We had kids together. I never thought he’d physically cheat, until that day in December 2011. Of course, I threw her out, he and I had a screaming match, and he left. Come to find out, she was waiting for him up the road. Until he could find a place of his own, we still lived together. She would always bring him home from work. They loved rubbing their ‘relationship’ in my face. They’ve made sure I could see them making out in her car in the driveway and so on. || Later on, I find out from him they had gotten a hotel room on our daughter’s birthday and screwed while everyone was asleep. I found out she was also married so I looked up her husband and found his number and gave him a ring letting him know his wife was sitting in my driveway with my husband kissing. I was then informed that he was not surprised and this wasn’t the first time she’d done this. I also found out she’s almost double his age, she has a son in his 20’s with 2 kids (she’s a grandma) and also has a son the same age as our oldest daughter (almost 7). Great example right? || I always had a feeling he and I wouldn’t last, but I held onto faith. Catching those 2 together was the push I needed I guess. They’re still together to this day. My ex has told me numerous times that he suspects she’s doing it to him too (once a cheater always a cheater). But I also know he’s done it to her and has asked me back a couple times. I considered, mainly for my kids, but ultimately decided against it. I’m glad I declined, because now we’re divorced and I’m happily engaged to the man of my dreams.