I had been married 11 and a half years when a girl that i grew up with started coming back around. Now mind you my husband and i have been together since high school fourteen years all together and 11 married. Now when we were younger we broke up a few times and during one of thesw times they hooked up supposedly once and of course when we got back together he swore up and down he regretted it and I of course cut all contact with her cause by that poibt in time we had been together 2 and a half years and that’s breaking girlfriend code. Well in february my kids and i moved back to our hometown to save money until he gets out of the military we were only an hour and a half away so we promised to see eachother at least every two weeks. || Well when i moved back the girk had stayed friends with my sister and she came over and apologised for everythinf and said she didnt realize that it woukd upset me and she just wanted us to be like family again and she would never ever do that again cause she knows how mich he meant to me now. This was in february i don’t really trust women so i was hesitant to believe her but i gave her the benefit of the doubt plus my husband had told me the past 11 years how disgusted he was that he ever messed with her. he even said he was disgusted by her when she first came around so i figured i have nothing to qorry about she just promised and he is cisgusted by her. wrong move he was here with us easter weekend of this year all lovey dovey and telling me and the kids he loves and misses us so much. well that weekend he disnt have a ride back to fort campbell so she offered and to take him back which she had done once before. well may 5 comes around he hadn’t talked to me at all the weekend prior which is completeky out of character for him he call monday and sayshappy and has been for a while and he wanrs a divorce and sited a few marital problems he’s unhappy and wants a divorce the reasons he sited could be fixed if we both worked at it but he woukdbt even give me the chance to fix things. well two days later i find out that him and ger have been texting a lot and now they are in love and as soon as my divorce is final he will be with her. But he is not leaving me and our four boys for her. its just a coincidence that she had been visiting him at fort campbell and on the weekends he told me he had plans with his roommate so he coukdnt come see me and the kids he was actually here in our town visiting her and her kids for the weekend. he has since started posting he loves her on her facebook where our kids can see how disrespectful he is being towards me and the kids and on multiple occasions now he’s chose to spend time with her and her girls over our boys. He doesn’t have to choose to be with me but he should definitely choose our kids over anyone everytime. Here’s the kicker this was done to her by her kids father and she had the nerve tp say she knows how i feel when i confronted her. well if you know how it feels why the hell would u turn around and do this to someone who u claimed as a friend and why would u do it to the kids in that relationship having seen what it did to your kids.