Well ill start off with the basics. This girl and I met in January last year. We were friends right from the get go. We had so much in common and we got along great. I started dating this guy in February 2012. We were together until October, because a stupid nasty bitch came and fucked it all up. I confided in this bitch about all the problems me and him were having, sexually and relationship wise. She would give me advice on how to handle things, when I just didnít know what to do. Well my phone was off at one time and I couldnít get in touch with my boyfriend and I was staying with her at her house one night. I asked her if I could use her phone for a little bit so I can text him back and forth and let him know what was going on. I didnít think anything of it. Well she dropped me off the next day with him at his house and he was acting a little distant and I asked him what was wrong and he said nothing he just didnít feel good. He was on his phone the whole time texting when we were together and his phone was attached to his hip. I asked him who he was texting and he said his mom. In my head I was like yeah okay whatever asshole but I said okay and didnít dwell on it. || Well I ended up hanging out with her again for a couple days. We went and got tattoos and new piercings and she was telling me about this guy she was talking to and how great he was. I didnít think anything about that either. Well about two weeks later I invited my boyfriend over for dinner. I cooked up a storm; steaks, green beans, corn on the cob,ect ect. Then I get a text about an hour after I finished dinner. I was pissed because he was supposed to be at my house about an hour and half ago by that time. Let me explain something before I start this piece of the story, my boyfriend has Cirrhosis of the liver. Well back to the story the text read this is Jake (bf) brother and he is in the hospital on the way to your house he started vomiting blood and was rushed to hospital. I was in a panic getting ready to head out the door and to the hospital. I told the brother I would be to the hospital soon and he said no he canít have visitors. I was like WTF? That doesnít sound right. So I texted my friend (well ex friend)now and told her what was going on and she was trying to calm me down and talk to me. I kept texting his brother and he was like he will be okay I hope and donít worry about it I cant text phone is about to die. I was like ARE YOU KIDDING ME RIGHT NOW! || Well a couple days later Iím sitting around lounging and I get a text from this bitch saying that her and Jake were together and that Iím a nasty bitch and I donít deserve him and he complains about me all the time and that they have been fucking around behind my back for months and I just need to get over it. I sat there dumb founded. I texted back and I said what kind of friend are you? †She replied at least Iím being honest. I texted her and him and both told them that they can go to hell and if he did that to me he’ll do that to you also. I later found out that this bitch and him were together the night he bailed on me when I made him dinner. LIED ABOUT BEING IN CRITICAL CONDITION AT THE FREAKIN HOSPITAL! WHO DOES SHIT LIKE THAT? This bitch ruined my relationship . But I donít put on the blame on her, the POS I was with ruined the best damn thing he is ever going to get! ME! I just want to tell all the ladies out there a couple of things! Donít let ANY MAN OR WOMEN put you down and make you feel like you arenít anything.DO NOT tolerate abuse and asshole men or women. Have some self-respect for yourself and donít take shit from anyone. I am a survivor of physical abuse and cheating LOW DOWM MEN! DONT EVER THINK YOU NEED A MAN TO MAKE YOU HAPPY. YOU HAVE TO MAKE YOURSELF HAPPY BEFORE YOU CAN EVER BE HAPPY WITH A MAN/WOMEN.