Lauren L. McAllister Barkhamsted, Connecticut Connecticut

Lauren and my husband met online. At that time in my opinion, we had a happy marriage. Apparently and unbeknownst to me he wasn’t so happy to be able to have an affair. In any event when I became aware of her in March, I (not so kindly) told her through the internet who I was and that me and my husband were not separated, we have children, and to basically move on. We also had a bout of back and forth text messages about our marriage. So she was very aware that he was married with children and an intact marriage. Long story short, she refused to stop talking to him insisting that they were just”meant to be”. Right. || My husband kept breaking things off with her and would come back home, but would start talking to her again. I’ve always placed as much or more of the blame on my husband for the affair, after all he’s the one who married me, however she wouldn’t go away!!! When he broke it off with her time and time again she wouldn’t let be.

Lauren and my husband met online. At that time in my opinion, we had a happy marriage. Apparently and unbeknownst to me he wasn’t so happy to be able to have an affair. In any event when I became aware of her in March, I (not so kindly) told her through the internet who I was and that me and my husband were not separated, we have children, and to basically move on. We also had a bout of back and forth text messages about our marriage. So she was very aware that he was married with children and an intact marriage. Long story short, she refused to stop talking to him insisting that they were just”meant to be”. Right. || My husband kept breaking things off with her and would come back home, but would start talking to her again. I’ve always placed as much or more of the blame on my husband for the affair, after all he’s the one who married me, however she wouldn’t go away!!! When he broke it off with her time and time again she wouldn’t let be. She would always be obliged to start”dating” him again. It should have been even clearer at this point he was struggling with his decision to continue the affair, but in true Lauren fashion, she didn’t care about the sanctity of marriage or about our children who would be left without a father enough to leave a married man alone. (By the way, later on my husband told me this is not the first married man she’s been involved with.) || Ok, so in February I believe is when they met online. In March is when I found out about the Homewrecker. In May I kicked my husband out. In July (I think) she moved in with my husband and then that’s when I cut off all communication with him except when it had to do with my children. My husband has said that all along he never wanted a divorce so when I stopped talking to him and cut him off and I was proceeding with divorce documents, he cut things off with her. She moved back into her parents’ house. || He called things off with her not 3 weeks after she moved in with him. We are now separated and I’m still trying to figure out exactly what I want to do with my marriage. Like I said earlier, I blame my husband a lot because he was married to me, but its women like this who makes affairs possible. She, like others like her, obviously doesn’t have many moral values.

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