Lisa Macmilian Martinelli Georgia Georgia

Let me start by saying my story is a sad one this girl was my friend we had known each other since 6th grade and both grown up to be military wives I confided in her when we had problems, we talk to each other I never thought she would use it against me to her advantage. || Now let me introduce you to Lisa Martinelli. In order to really understand the story I have to go back to how I met my husband. I met him when I was 15 it was love at first sight,I adored him. At 18 years old I found out that I was pregnant by 19 we were married with a baby and Daddy joined the military. Lisa and I were like sisters we talked on a regular basis we talked about our problems and shared our feelings. || My first husband Jeremy was a very very cruel person. He was not only physically but mentally abusive towards me. I was young I did not realize this was not how a marriage was supposed to be this is not what love was supposed to look like. He degraded me, he beat me on a regular basis, he called me f

Let me start by saying my story is a sad one this girl was my friend we had known each other since 6th grade and both grown up to be military wives I confided in her when we had problems, we talk to each other I never thought she would use it against me to her advantage. || Now let me introduce you to Lisa Martinelli. In order to really understand the story I have to go back to how I met my husband. I met him when I was 15 it was love at first sight,I adored him. At 18 years old I found out that I was pregnant by 19 we were married with a baby and Daddy joined the military. Lisa and I were like sisters we talked on a regular basis we talked about our problems and shared our feelings. || My first husband Jeremy was a very very cruel person. He was not only physically but mentally abusive towards me. I was young I did not realize this was not how a marriage was supposed to be this is not what love was supposed to look like. He degraded me, he beat me on a regular basis, he called me fat, ugly, stupid and told me that the sight of me naked made him want to vomit. I disgusted him I had gotten so fat. He crushed every fiber of my soul and broke me. But I thought I loved him and I needed him. I had to make him happy. I took the abuse like a champ I defended him when everybody said to leave, my parents were so worried my dad took a life insurance policy on me so that when, not if, but when Jeremy killed me my daughter would be taken care of. Jeremy was arrested multiple times for domestic violence never because I pressed charges because the police arrested him for my own safety. Jeremy was not only Cruel to me,I saw that one time when he was towards my daughter she told him that she loved him and he looked in her eyes at 3 years old and said I don’t love you hell I don’t even know if you’re mine. What kind of person can say that to a child. I was lost I didn’t know where that come from or why he would even act like she wasn’t his. I never cheated. I started having suspicions that Jeremy was cheating on me but he made me feel crazy he called me all kind of names and said that I was obviously losing my f****** mind to think that he would give up his family, if I didn’t drop my crazy f****** thoughts he would divorce my ass. I could not imagine life without him. I was young stupid and very in love with him he was my everything. I went into a deep depression and started having anxiety attacks.  Jeremy told me the best thing I could do for my daughter would be to kill myself instead of making her watch her mother go crazy. I love my daughter with every fiber of my being she was my everything, to be 3 years old she was my best friend. I would talk to Lisa and tell her how he was acting, she would tell me you deserve so much better, don’t let him do this to you, leave him blah blah blah. || Jeremys first deployment was 2009 I stayed home and waited like a faithful wife I was good to him, I made sure our daughter knew him and knew she had a daddy to be proud of. || Lisa and I kept communicating throughout his deployment she was my rock she help me stay sane until he returned. Then Lisa and I weren’t as close but I still considered her my friend, so when jeremy’s best friend came to me and told me that he had to tell me something that he couldn’t hold it in anymore it was weighing on his conscience, I held my breath, he told me that my husband and my best friend had been having sex and dating behind my back. He said he couldn’t hold it in any longer I was too good of a person and I was too nice and he felt bad that he had hid it from me for this long he just didn’t want to be the one to hurt me. I would not believe the words coming out of his mouth, I thought  how could they do that? That’s when he sent me pictures of Jeremy playing with her kids and them kissing and hugging things that he was doing with her that he should have been home doing with me and his daughter. At that very moment the proof was in my face. When I confronted Lisa about it she said had I not let myself get so out of control and get so fat my husband wouldn’t be running to her. || I felt humiliated I felt stupid and I felt like a fool how could I not see it, how was I so blind to not see what was going on in front of my face, I then started to go through emails and phone records and that’s when I found a message from her saying 100 hundred reasons why I love Jeremy she signed it Lisa. We were not even divorced and she had her kids calling him daddy and in 2 weeks she started planning a wedding and I read where she said to him you need to talk to her about me getting your visitation to your daughter, she can become part of our family why you’re deployed. BITCH NO. I confronted Jeremy with it to tell him I wanted to divorce. He cried and begged me to stay saying that he didn’t realize how messed up he had become after his deployment. As petty is sounds I told him he had to make it right, he had to let Lisa know what she was to him, I could not forgive him, I could not accept it, he had been horrible to me why should she get to see the good, she didn’t deserve that side of him, I did . The one thing I knew about Jeremy was how vicious he was and that he could kill with words.  He could break your soul in a sentence, she needed to know she had not won him. I forgave Jeremy thinking it was the best thing for my daughter she didn’t deserve to lose her dad none of this was her fault, she was innocent. He swore there was never sex just fooling around. || In 2010 we receive the news that jeremy was deploying again we also found out I was pregnant with baby number 2. I was terrified not only was I pregnant I would have to do it alone being high risk, I have 3 year old and I had to worry about my husband in a war zone.  At 12 weeks pregnant during a routine checkup, my doctor told me I had tested positive for an STD, I was hysterical. She tried to comfort me by saying this was very common in the military and that it was curable. I looked at her with disgust. She said I take it you didn’t know your husband had been cheating on you. I have never felt so dirty in my life I was 25 years old I have never had an s_t_d before and I got one from my husband of 4 years. I went home and laid in bed and cried I felt disgusting I wanted to take a clorox bath I felt ruined. || I received a phone call from jeremy when I got home from the doctors office. He was talking to me like the world was great next thing I knew I was screaming how many people jeremy how many times did you cheat on me, he says there you go with that crazy shit again I never physically cheated on you so I screamed back how the f*** did I get an std. He hung up. I knew then it was all lies. || I just laid in bed and cried until I fell asleep. Jeremy called me the next day again he was on the phone acting like we’d never had the conversation, I said Jeremy are you not going to tell me about this he said no don’t f****** bring it up again, I was so angry I screamed I don’t f****** deserve to know?? There was nothing I could do, what was done was done I just had to move on but I could not forgive him I began to hate him. I was due in February and October on the 13th my brother, my best friend had killed himself my world was spinning and I need a him to comfort me I needed him to tell me it would be okay I would make it through, instead what I got was good I didn’t like him anyways. At that moment I stop loving him, I saw the cruelty and the evil that he had in himself. He did not talk to me again after that, I later found out it was because he had a relationship with a female soldier. || I started going into early labor a few days later the doctor told me I was putting too much stress on the baby and that there was a possibility that he would be premature. Jeremy’s mom had spoken to Jeremy and told him what was going on I never heard anything from him not so much the phone call not a text nothing. I managed to keep the baby in until New Years Eve and then I gave birth to my beautiful son who looked just like his daddy. During my delivery I cried to my mom, he posted on Facebook about how happy he was that his baby boy was finally here. What a f****** show, he didn’t care while I was pregnant, he didn’t care when I was going into early labor hell he hadn’t even seen a picture of him until my mom sent it to him. He was so proud to have a son that looked just like him he said he was going to teach him, how to be a man. Reality hit me he was going to teach my son how to be him and he was going to teach my daughter but this is what females deserve to be treated like. When Jeremy came home for his R&R, I sucked it up and spent the two weeks with him for the kids they were innocent they weren’t a part of this war. After a night of drinking I asked Jeremy why do you treat me like this, he looked at me, smiled and said cause I know you’ll never leave. He then beat my ass to a pulp because he said Lisa had told him that our children weren’t his that I had lied and was trying to fool him, I had stood beside this man, I had taken my beatings like a champ but those words cut like knives. When Jeremy returned back to Iraq I started seeing a lawyer I was done I’ve been had him served with divorce papers as soon as he brought himself home two days after he got home from Iraq not only was he served with divorce papers and it would start with a paternity test so he could never deny our children again. || Jeremy was even more cruel about our divorce he said good you’re fat you’re ugly, you’re uneducated and you have two kids who the f**** going to want you and your baggage. I stood my ground and said as long as its not you I don’t care you can’t hurt me anymore then you already have. I’m already dead inside. My mom took a picture of me the day that I signed my divorce papers she said it was the happiest day of her life she didn’t have to worry about me dying anymore. The results from the paternity test came back in 99.999% positive, both of the kids were his, not that there was ever a doubt. I put the pieces of my broken life back together and I went back to school.I got my GED and then I went on to become a CNA I was taking care of my kids and I was proud, he didn’t kill me, I was getting better,I was going to be ok. || When Jeremy started to see that he no longer had control over me he couldn’t handle it when he would call to speak to our children he would apologize and beg for me back I told to go f*** himself or go to Lisa and have her do it for him I don’t care which one. Shortly afterwards Jeremy completely abandon our children they weren’t worth it, if he couldn’t have me. It’s been over a year since my daughter and son have seen or spoke to their father, me I think it’s the best thing that could have happened to them but they’re still too young to understand. || But on with my story once I was better in 2012 I met a man and I fell in love again,I never thought i could let my guard down and be happy again with a man after Jeremy. We got married, we had a beautiful Son and because their dad was not an active part of their lives he took over the role of being my kids dad he is good man. But even with him being a good man sometimes things just don’t work out and personalities don’t clash we end up going our separate ways, but before we went our separate ways he admitted to me that he had made a mistake in our marriage and he thought I needed to know he had cheated on me with a girl named ding ding ding Lisa Martinelli.. This time I’m going to expose her. I don’t understand if she is obsessed with me or wants my life or wants to be with me but regardless b**** stay away from my husbands, get your own, better yet you’ve already had four just f****** close your legs… || || >

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