This woman ruined my marriage of nearly a decade and THINKS she got away with it. My husband and I got married pretty young when I found out I was pregnant. The situation was not ideal but we managed to make a good life together. I sacrificed my education to stay home and care for our son so that my husband could finish school and provide us a better life. We had 2 more children during our first 5 years of marriage and I was content. Money was always short but I really trusted my husband. || We had our disagreements. He was gone for school and work a lot and money issues put a lot of stress on us but we both loved our kids more than anything and I knew we would make it work. I thought our prayers were answered when he got a promotion at his job. The new job required he go to CA for several weeks of training but I trusted him and knew that he had to work. || He wasn’t gone long before I knew something was wrong. His communication with me was limited and short. When he finally got home after weeks he would hardly look at me and finally told me he wanted to separate. I asked him all the time if there was someone else and he denied. I guess he wasn’t smart enough to know that I was his wife and could basically get into all of his accounts, read his texts and emails and monitor his calls. It took about a day for me to find out her name and information. I was crushed for the years I wasted with him my kids and our future. || Lucy also worked for his same company and was at the training the same weeks as him. Not only is she several years older than him but she was married and had toddler twins! She would go on and on via email and text about how bad she felt about cheating but her husband was just so mean and so was I! Then shed start talking about their sex life and how she couldn’t wait to see him soon and be with him. She lived in TX and we lived in KY. I wanted to puke and scream and just lose it. || I felt sick about it all especially her acting like the VICTIM even though she was breaking up my house and hers! My husband kept saying there was no one even while he was telling her he missed her and they were discussing where they’d live when they both finally got their marriages officially ended. It was obvious my husband was capable of more lying then was possible in a good man just making a mistake so I didn’t even fight for him. I just let him pretend to be a saint as he left his 3 kids. I think they deserved each other and I just let those sneaky liars be. || Funny enough not long after he left our house and then actually left the town where I was still caring for our kids he dumped her. Maybe he got tired of her whining on Facebook and always posing with alcoholic drinks like she was 21 instead of a woman who was desperate and used up? Hobag. Dummy didn’t even realize ex-wife’s can still access there ex-husbands accounts. || I’m now happy as can be and their both alone and miserable. Cheaters and liars NEVER win. I’ve been so close so many times to letting her husband know what really happened because that poor man still has no idea the monster he was married too. She’s a wolf dressed up like a needy professional who hos around with married men. Watch out.