I was married (or still am for now) to my high school sweetheart. Him and I started dating when I just turned 16, I am 23 now. We have 3 children together and have been married for 5 years. I had come home from El Paso, TX to have my youngest child while he was deployed in Afghanistan. When he came back home, he had to go back to Texas for a little while and then we were going to move to Germany. He was in Texas for about a month and then he had block leave and he came home to Alabama (where I had my baby) and he was here for a month. || Everything was WONDERFUL, except he had someoneís iPod and he was ALWAYS on it. He barely paid attention to his children because of that thing. I asked where he got it and he said his friend”John” let him borrow it. I believe him since there was no reason not to. It was just aggravating that he would rather pay attention to that thing rather than spend time with me and our kids while he was home. September came around and he had to leave to go back to Texas. He got back to Texas and everything seemed fine. We were all excited to move to Germany and just make our life great. The kids were super excited that we were going to be back with daddy. || Well, about 2 weeks after he got home I got a message on Facebook from this girl named”Lynn Cobos” and it said”Hello Brittany, I’m Lynn. I would like to talk to you about Shawn. I feel itís only right that I tell you the truth. Just letting you know for me sending this message alone Iíve gotten a threatening call from his best friend.” I was confused and I messaged her back and asked her what truth. I called my husband and I got him to admit to it and tell me everything. Apparently, some friends of his introduced them and they had been”dating” since before he went to Afghanistan. I went off on him and her. I called her names, including homewrecking whore. I was beyond mad. She responded with this;”I didn’t know about you so quit your shit! I was trying to tell you then Tuttle threatened me. Also I’m not the only one because he was two timing me with someone named Angie. Sorry I wanted to do the right thing and let you know! But you obviously don’t care, seems like I’m the only bad one here, when really it’s him, because he lied to me. And just leave me alone. Stop getting everyone to message me or add me and all that shit. Bye” || I was shocked that she thought I should pity her because he cheated on her too as she states in that message and I knew she was lying when she said she didnít know about me because he had told me that he told her about me and showed her pictures of me and the kids. She searched me on the internet and found my Facebook and found my YouTube and downloaded all my videos of the kids and was saving pictures of my children. I sent her this message.” umm Iím sorry hunny but I could care f*ckin less that he cheated on you. IM HIS F*CKING WIFE!! You are the homewrecking whore!! You are the bad one here!! Both of yaíll are!” || She blocked me after that and I only hear from her through him. She convinced him to take all the money we had and leave me and the kids with nothing. It is now July 2013 and they are still together and we are divorcing, still waiting for him to sign the papers, which he has had for weeks now. I blocked her from everything and blocked him from everything and somehow they were still getting on my Facebook and watching my every move. I just recently had to change my Facebook and everything because of how bad it has gotten. I hope he is happy with her and she is happy with him. Once a cheater always a cheater. If he will do this to me and our kids then he will do it to her. Good Riddance.