I have been with my common law husband for 15 years. We have been very happy. We have a son together. We were on our way to the Christmas lights when he pulled out this drawing and asked me how cool it was that he might get it tattooed. He said a tattoo artist buddy of his drew it. As in looking at it I notice it is signed very small with a name that looked to be Mary. I asked who that was. He got a little nervous said he didn’t know amd tossed the paper in the back seat. A few minutes later we were eating and I saw a text message come across his phone.”Im going to bed” from a Marcy Redhead. I said who is she and why would she text you that. He told me she was a customer and it must be a mistake. Sent it to the wrong person. At this point a little flag went up but we went to the lights and I put it in the back of my mind. || Over the next few months there has been more drawings in his truck to our son from this Marcy. Then he took our son to McDonald’s, by themselves, which was weird because if my son goes I go. But again, put it out of my head until my son came home and said they had lunch with a girl. I asked my”husband” if it was Marcy. He said no. And they didn’t eat together it was a customer. Then Valentine’s day he takes me out 2 days before. Then day of he claims he wants to work on his car. We already celebrated and didn’t come home all night. I go to find him at his business and he isn’t there. †I go home and check the registration on this Honda he had been driving for a customer for weeks and it is this Marcy Redhead. I am fuming now. But still not ready to destroy my family without absolute proof. I confront him. He tries to say it’s her husbandís car. Not hers, even with all the clothes purses and curling irons. At this point I’m telling him he is full of shit. He won’t admit it. || Thursday I am waiting for him at his shop that he should’ve opened for business 2 hours prior and decide I’m going to wait till he shows and I decide to go thru his emails. What a surprise first thing I see is an email from Marcy titled love you and it’s a naked video. He denies it saying she’s a stalker. I talk to her she says they are getting married and having babies. Blah blah. I’m said you are a honewrecker. She doesn’t care. It comes to the point on Sunday that I kick him out and he can’t come back. He asked me to put some of his things in his car. He sends her to pick them up 2 minutes later. The same girl he denies knowing like that. Turns out the matching tattoos that he and I got New Years Eve? He got her one too! || I hope they have a great life of paranoia together always worrying about the other cheating. They are low lifes that deserve each other. I have always been loyal, faithful and loving. He seriously lost the best thing that ever happened to him!