My experience is a new kind of low. Her name is Maria Vanairsdale and at just 20 years old she is capable of such poor decisions as most of our youth now is. Not thinking of others and how their actions have consequences. Im only a few years older but my morals and integrity are at a much higher standard. She and my husband work together. He is just as much at fault as she is. I was at the end of my third pregnancy 3 months ago when they began”talking”. I had a complicated high risk pregnancy due to rare blood disorder. They didnt become intimate until after i delivered my son through emergency c-section. Whom was early and had to stay in the nicu for 2weeks. Meanwhile i was dealing with my own health and recovery- still am fighting my recovery now 3 months later. || And all the while my husband and Maria were having their affair while my son and I were in and out of the hospital. He hardly came to see us and our other two children were being taken care of by their grandparents. I suspected something was up with the distance and strangeness in my husband’s behavior. I made accusations until my 7 year old pointed her out to me almost two months into the affair. She said”mommy I saw daddy kiss that girl”. You should never hear those words from your child. It wasnt until i told him to leave that he confessed to it. That was two weeks after my daughter exposed them. At this time Maria finally opened up and answered many questions but she continues to see and sleep with my husband knowing that the lies he told her about our marriage were lies. Such as the marriage has been over, we’re not intimate, ect. My husband is 12 years older, her boss, and has 3 children and a wife of 9 years. To destroy and create a broken home in the manner that they are doing is beyond reckless and selfish.