My husband and I have been together for 16 years and married now for 7. I just found out a few months ago that he had been having an affair with this girl he knew from an old coworker she was married to. He calls her his best friend; he also got the bitch pregnant. According to a Facebook post she claims they had been seeing each other for 6 years. Most of our marriage. He won’t admit to how long it had been going on or how much contact he has had with this homewrecker. That downgrade won’t go away. || All he does is lie; I canít even tell when he is telling the truth anymore. I have forgiven him and attempted to work it out but he is still unsure what he wants to do. They still talk on the phone through texting. He even goes to the ultrasounds with her. He left to stay at his parents awhile saying he needed to clear his head and figure things out, now he is back home but I still don’t know what to think. I want this bitch gone out of our lives so we can heal.† Is it worth it, can things ever be the same? What do you ladies think? My family thinks I should serve his no good cheating ass with divorce papers.