We all have heard about women cheating on their significant other while they are deployed overseas, right? Well, do I have a story to tell you! Only its the soldier cheating on his girl with none other than his bat sh*t crazy, not mention ugly as shit platoon leader, SSgt Mary Ray. We dated for a year and a half. I was crazy in love with this man. Sadly, he ended his own life three weeks after we found out we were having a baby. No one really knows why. There was a lot of shit going on at once which may have overwhelmed him. I was crushed and it took me a long time to process what had happened. || Anyway, as for Ray, the lovely lady in the photo I have posted above….I never met her during my relationship with him. I did hear nothing but bad, scandalous stories of corruption and abuse of power within the unit from this lady that he told at least once a week. Turns out, he was trying to cover his affair with her all along. I guess I should have known considering he talked about how much he hated her constantly. || Fast forward to his memorial service that his unit had set up and invited me to….I walked in a seen and heard a woman up front crying hysterically. That was Ray. I thought that was strange she was that upset over someone she supposedly hated (as I was told). When the service had ended, she came and sat next to me with a few other people and hugged me and held my hand while saying the sweetest things to me. Seemed so genuine but I was younger and more naive at the time. I thought she was the sweetest person ever and was confused about why I heard such nasty things. Here’s where it gets good! || His dad and brother flew out to Tulsa to clean out his apartment and handle his legal stuff. I spoke to his dad and was supposed to come help clean and get my things I had left there. But that didn’t happen….because this crazy bitch got ahold of his dad beforehand and told him a bunch of made up bullsh*t about me such as….I cheated and the baby wasn’t his which is why he fell into depression and ended his life and plenty of other bs. Yes. She used her position of power to alienate me and his child from his family by blaming me for the suicide! Not to mention she fooled his dad into giving her his f*cking dog tags (supposed to go to significant other or family) and maybe some other sh*t. That really hit hard. || Well her lies worked because no one would speak to me after that. I never knew why. No one told me. After all, being his commanding officer gave her a lot of credibility over some girl he dated. So I went about my pregnancy and gave up on the family for the time being. || Almost one year later, I got ahold of his dad and asked if he would do a DNA test. His parents agreed and sure enough, she was their baby. This didn’t sit well with Ray, who still communicated with his family. And the lies continued while I still had no clue what was going on. || One day, I snapped and messaged on FB a few fellow soldiers in the unit out that were close to both of them. They all had told me that they were sleeping together for a long time and not let her get to me because EVERYONE knew how she was and no one liked or trusted her. I couldn’t believe it. I mean look at how old and ugly she is LOL! Well I guess looks don’t mean shit. || Moving on, it took a few days to process the news as I put the pieces together. It made perfect sense in hindsight. I got her phone number and called her in a fit of rage. Definitely caught her off guard lol. Of course, she didn’t admit that shit and pulled the victim card and said “I have cancer, I have schizophrenia, I admit I’ve seen him naked and I have some of his clothes at my housebbut we didn’t fuck ever. He just came over and stayed the night to take care of me while I had cancer, blah blah blah…” HA! yeah, ok, dumb bitch. Throughout the conversation her story kept changing and so did her excuses. She also inadvertently admitted things as she talked, just in a very indirect way. The most passive aggressive person I have ever seen. || Well of course she tried to lie. After all, she had a lot to lose being she could face nonjudicial punishment for having an intimate relationship with a subordinate. Yet she allowed people to know about it who in turn, told me. Stupid. Just stupid. || Well, in the end I won. His family figured sh*t out without me saying a word. When I tried to tell them, they already knew and filled me in on other shit I wasn’t aware of. Well, dumb, ugly ho is out of the picture and his family and I are on great terms and they love his daughter :)) || I wanted to hurt her as bad as she hurt me by exploiting such a tragedy to cover her ass, but I let it go bc karma is a bitch and you know what they say….give a person enough rope, they’ll hang themselves and she did. Thanks for reading and if you know her, watch out! She has a smile on her face with a knife behind her back.