Mary Toder Sinard Morristown, Tennessee Tennessee

So my story starts back in June. It went on a lot longer than I had thought. I am a mother of 5 one being a stepchild. My husband and I have been together 7 years. We moved to Tennessee in 2010 thinking it would be a fresh start and better life for our family. Back early one morning in June I woke up at 3:15am and he was gone. I had no clue where he went I called his phone repeatedly and he shut it off he didn’t come home until 6:30am. I asked him where he had been he said walking thinking about how much he loved me and the kids and how we had a lot going on and he just needed to clear his head. Mind you it was raining that night and he came home bone dry with his penis freshly washed yes I smelled it and no one walks for 3 hours and smells like soap but I didn’t want to believe it. 2 days later we were having sex and his phone went off it was a text message he had the phone number under Gilberto the message said Did you get off? †Now Iím looking out the window like w

So my story starts back in June. It went on a lot longer than I had thought. I am a mother of 5 one being a stepchild. My husband and I have been together 7 years. We moved to Tennessee in 2010 thinking it would be a fresh start and better life for our family. Back early one morning in June I woke up at 3:15am and he was gone. I had no clue where he went I called his phone repeatedly and he shut it off he didn’t come home until 6:30am. I asked him where he had been he said walking thinking about how much he loved me and the kids and how we had a lot going on and he just needed to clear his head. Mind you it was raining that night and he came home bone dry with his penis freshly washed yes I smelled it and no one walks for 3 hours and smells like soap but I didn’t want to believe it. 2 days later we were having sex and his phone went off it was a text message he had the phone number under Gilberto the message said Did you get off? †Now Iím looking out the window like what the hell did someone hear us having sex then another message came in saying Hey skittlelicker what happened to you. I was confused because at first Iím like is he screwing this guy? †So I write back and tell him this is his wife i’ll have him call. You they wrote back ok. It still didn’t sit right with me so I had my friend call the phone and the voicemail said Mary. I flipped on him yelling telling him I knew that must have been who he was with 2 days ago then I put the number in on facebook and sure enough here pops up a Mary Toder Sinard who has a husband she has been with for 10 years and has 4 kids! I text her and cursed her out even told her I had herpes ( I don’t) but I figured it would scare her off . I wrote her husband and he didn’t believe me. || After a few days I let it go because my husband kept telling me it was his friend Gilbertos girlfriend messing around with his phone I didn’t see it coming I mean he still told me he loved me, he still kissed me, we still made love almost every night. But It never settled right with me but up until 2 weeks ago, I hadn’t heard anything more about her. Then my friend stopped at the gas station and it just so happened my husband was there and to her surprise, the girl Mary was the one behind the counter. So of course she rushed over to my house and told me. I was thrown back, here I thought this shit was in the past and I wasn’t going hear her name again. That night he called for a ride home from work. I answered and told him to ask her for a ride and hung up. He walked home that night he said he was scared and was thinking about what he was going to do if he lost me. When he got here we didn’t talk for hours then he came up to me and started asking me what I wanted to do and I told him I don’t know. I asked him if he was finally ready to be honest with me it took an hour for him to answer my first question which was HOW LONG? †He finally told me a couple months then I asked how far did it go and he said we f**ked. Those words leaving his lips crushed me ,it took my breath away. I asked him if she knew about me and the kids and he said yes that she wasn’t happy in her marriage and that she had given him her number one day when he was at work and they had started talking. I told him I felt like there was more he wasn’t telling me and he kept denying it. The next day he told me he wanted to work this all out he didn’t care what it took he said he wrote her and told her she wasn’t worth losing his family over. I asked him how he wrote her and he looked at me like a deer in the headlights. He knew his only option was to be honest. He told me he had a fake facebook it took me like an hour to get the password and email. These facebook messages changed the man I thought he was. It was like for the past 5 months I was sleeping with and next to a stranger. There were naked pictures back and forth there were over 10,000 messages. I read everything The messages of her laughing the day I almost caught them and how I said I had herpes her response was oh well I told you im on some romeo and Juliet shit its too late now! My husband was pissed he told her she was stupid and why did she text his phone. Her talking about raising my kids on a farm with him WHICH WOULD BE OVER MY DEAD BODY! They had a one month anniversary I damn near lost it when I read that. How in the hell? Iím still shaking my head over it they got engaged in August engaged wth you are both still married and living with your husband and wife. It was sick the game and delusion between the 2 of them. She wrote messages to my husband admitting to sleeping with another married man and how she was scared that my husband wouldn’t be honest and it would end like the other affair she had. Nah really? Him not be honest while he is lying and cheating on his wife of 7 years who almost died giving birth to his children? Nope! You nailed a freaking winner. There are messages telling my husband she wished he would come there and push her husband out of the bed and crawl in and keep her warm. BTW they were having sex in her husbands bed. See Iím always home cleaning cooking and taking care of the kids so my house was a red zone They weren’t getting in here. They referred to me as she or her like I wasn’t even a person. Her husband was him or he and they called each other Romeo and Juliet Lmao. This isn’t quite how that story went. He would lie to her I would see where he was like oh I fell asleep knowing damn well me and him were spending time together and having sex. They apologized a couple times for sleeping with me or her husband it was demented. There was a couple times I read where she said she was gonna punch me in the face or beat my ass. God if only she ever had the guts. She had my husbands shirt and she would wear it around her husband how he didn’t notice Iíll never know. She was a real piece of work and so is my husband. I read all the messages from my birthday real dirty grimy stuff that I just didn’t deserve. My husband would stop there on his lunch breaks at work and she would give him oral sex all the while her husband is at work trying to be a good man and support her and Iím at home taking care of home and doing for my family. || I feel alone right now because I guess no one else around me is going through this. Iím embarrassed. My husband keeps telling me I did nothing wrong it was all his fault he should have never let it happen but I still want to blame myself. I just want to warn anyone in Morristown Tn or anyone coming to Morristown this girl was relentless. I read all 10,000 messages and I could tell my husband was scared of getting caught she just didn’t care at all. He would say I think she is gonna find out and her response was so am I coming to get you tonight. He said the day he got caught with her by my friend that when he went to leave she said make sure you call me and tell me what is going on the suspense is gonna kill me. That hit him hard he was losing his family and all she could are about was the drama she didn’t say oh ill be here for you if you need me nothing just wanting a good laugh off my pain. When my friend went in the store and told her he is married with kids you need to leave him alone her response was so ive been married for 10 years. When my mom went in there and told her she was hurting her daughter and grandkids and ripping apart a family she said I DON’T CARE. She didn’t care who she hurt not even her own husband and kids! Iíve tried to tell her husband. I send his sister the naked pictures of her and some messages but I don’t think he believes it. I feel bad for him because she ripped him apart she made him sound like a woman beater and she took a picture of some hickeys on her neck and tried to tell my husband he forced her (which I highly doubt seems like she will open her legs for anyone). Well this is most of my story honestly if I wrote it all in there it would take forever think about it 10,000 messages but I just want to warn other women to beware and if you Catch your man talking to her more then likely they are having sex or are about to. I wish I trusted my gut sooner. †

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