My husband and I were married almost 16 years when my world collapsed. Not once in all those years did I ever suspect or worry that he would cheat on me, I even thanked God many times that, that was the one thing I didn’t have to be concerned about in our relationship. I was blindsided one Saturday morning in January 2015 when he sat me down and told me he was not happy anymore and was planning on leaving. I had no idea where this came from, even asking him if there was someone else. He assured me that there was not. I was devastated and cried the entire day. The next day he woke up and acted like the previous day never happened, we layed in bed together, watching tv and cuddling the entire day as I was emotionally exhausted from the day before. Confused by the way he was acting, I turned to my sisters and best friend, by Tuesday morning they had convinced me to just check out his cell phone activity on our online account. || So I did. I found a phone # that was getting and receiving hundreds of texts per day. I Googled the number and it led to the Facebook page of 28 year old Meagan (Farr) Back. At that moment my heart sank, I recognized the name from 2 weeks prior when I had picked up, what I thought was my 19 y/o sons, phone and saw some explicit text messages from a girl named Meagan Back. I immediately put the phone down as I didn’t want to read about my son’s sex life. At that moment when I saw her name on Facebook I knew that it was not my son’s phone that I picked up, but my husband’s. Within a few hours I had figured out who this girl was. They work in Ems and he is the only paid employee at the station during the day, she was a volunteer and only required to come if there was a call, but decided she would hang out at the station on the days my husband was working. She had been working with him for the past 4 or 5 months. He had told me about her and how annoying it was having this girl sitting there with him all day, and how she whined about her husband and kids and how she was being stalked by another coworker named Dave. She had a new baby (that, come to find out, was not biologically her husband’s but was Dave’s, the so called”stalkers” baby, BTW Dave is 47 years old and also married for many years) She convinced my husband that Dave was in love with her and wouldn’t leave her alone, she left out the fact that she had a 2 year affair with him and had his child but since she had someone new, wanted him to dissappear. She continued to string Dave along (as you can see in the screen shots of a conversation between them) while she was fucking my husband. Her husband had a vasectomy after their 2nd son was born, years before she got pregnant with the 3rd. Her husband is the one that told me about the baby and that she has had mutiple affairs their entire marriage. || She is such a stupid whore, she had everything a woman could want, an attractive husband that worked his ass off for her and their kids (even accepting the other guys kid) a gorgeous home with an in ground pool in an upscale subdivision, drove a new SUV… She had it all. Her husband and I talked and supported each other for a few weeks after I contacted him about the affair. I can honestly say he is one of the nicest guys, and doesn’t deserve one ounce of what this whore has put him thru. I feel bad for him and pray that he will find the courage to get her out of his life and move on. || I kicked my husband out and kept his cell phone. Within a week I had found a program to retrieve deleted text messages, I had the entire transcript of their affair. It was heartbreaking to read but I did, it took me 9 hours and many tears to go thru it all. I discovered many disgusting actions the two of them had done. He was texting her on MY bday telling her she was sexy; he wouldn’t even skip his meeting to have dinner with me that day. The morning of our daughters 9th bday party he met her at Kroger’s for sex in the parking lot. One day in December he had brought home soup and oreo balls that he said was so good that I HAD to try it, come to find out the whore made those things for him. He also brought home Christmas jamberry nail stickers said the girl at work wanted to give them to me and our daughter. The bitch sells jamberry crap. He was texting her while at my parents house for Christmas Eve, and told her he isn’t taking off his sweatshirt because they had been together all day and it still smells like her, meanwhile between texts to her I was sitting on his lap hugging and kissing on him playing playing cards in my dads garage. I could go on and on, but the most sickening thing IMO, on January 10th he had told me that he had to work overnight, which he hadn’t done in a long time. I had texted him around 11:30pm, told him I missed him and asked if he was still up. He said of course, been busy. Then at 1am I got a call from our son, he had gotten arrested on a minor consumption. Scared and upset I called my husband with no answer. I texted him multiple times to call me immediately. He texted me back saying he was on a run, and wanted to know what was wrong. I told him I was not texting it and to call asap when he could. It took him an hour to call me. I found out later that January 10th is her bday and he had taken her out and to a hotel to celebrate. I needed him, our son needed him, and he was out wining and dining his whore, and took an hour to call me back. || She’s seriously such an idiot that she thought she could intimidate me by sending me a certified”Cease and Desist” letter that she typed up herself and thought I would be so scared that I would sign and return it. I have included a copy in the pics for your amusement. Its so funny how she tries to sound all professional and use big words, like I’m gonna buy that childish bullshit. || By no means am I defending my husband actions, I will never forget the hurt that he caused me. However she definitely started working there with an ulterior motive. She had played the poor little victim, wanting sympathy and attention from my husband. She made him believe that his home life was horrible and that she would give him a fairytale. My husband was not the first man she dug her claws into and will not be the last. She continues to try to get him back by texting him. She obviously gets off on tearing apart families. I am tired of this bitch being in my life, and have let her know that I will not stand by and let her continue to destroy my family any more than she already had.Karma is here bitch. || He and I are getting along and co-parenting well. As well as going to counseling. Not sure if I could ever take him back, however he is committed to making things right between us. I truly believe he is sorry for and ashamed of what he has done. He shows me every text she sends him, to prove to me that he has nothing to hide and what a pathetic wh*re she is. He knows that this nasty little homewrecker ruined his life and destroyed his family.