The affair all started about March, 2012, but let me start at the beginning. My husband and I got married in January 2009 but due to his probation we couldn’t live together till his probation officer approved it. I moved to Nicholasville, Ky from Winchester in May 2009 and that’s when he became friends with Megan who lives in the other half of our duplex. They smoked pot together because I didn’t smoke. She always seemed to be helpful like a friendly neighbor, but it was always helping him. I didn’t think much of it because she had really short hair at the time so I just thought she was a lesbian. || In February 2010 we had our daughter. She became my daughter’s best friend. Megan has her own kids, one which is handicapped. She always stayed high or drunk. I saw her do a nose dive on my sidewalk from being so drunk and she fell down her stairs putting a hole in the wall from drinking and being high. She started asking for more from my husband and I just let him because right after our daughter was born I got sterilized. Not realizing it till after everything was exposed I had gone through a depression period I thought it was menopause. In March 2012 he was having a bad day with the mower and that’s when she finally crossed the line. She had been flirting with him for a long time before this and he claims he just ignored her and thought of her as a friend. She came off her porch and gave a very consoling hug and he slowly followed her into her house and they had sex on her couch. Then they started sexting each other and meeting a couple times a month while I was at work. || I thought it was all me so I got some hormone pills and started taking them. I finally started feeling normal again but he didn’t seem interested. I approached him several times about what was wrong and he just made excuses saying I was crazy and it was nothing like that, that there was nothing wrong with us. He even got to the point that when we had a disagreement he would go out like he was smoking a cigarette and complain to her about me. One day he sent me a text at work saying you really look nice today. I asked him about it and he claims it was for me, to this day he still says that it was but I don’t believe him. I quit my job to help him with his. We went on our first family vacation during this time and had her watch our house and pets for us. At this point im totally clueless. He went hunting every day and had her come out there so they could have sex in our truck. I had my suspicions but never about her. Finally in January 2013 right before our anniversary I was going through his phone and found texts from her that said I want you and kisses and hugs. He responded with a smile and where are you at. He claimed he never really paid any mind to her. He texted her telling not to text him kisses and hugs. That night she texted him a friendly text and I texted back as him asking what she was thinking texting like that, she never answered. || The next morning I texted asking her what made her think my husband wanted her? She told me if I wanted to talk to come outside. When I went outside I asked her if they had been together and she nodded. She had been crying because she knew he was busted and there was a chance he wasn’t coming to her. My husband and his oldest boy got into a wrestling match and my boy got his head busted open and my husband in jail. I told her “Whore stay the hell away from my family” she said I made bad decisions but I’m not a whore. Call it what you want if it looks like a whore, smells like a whore and acts like a whore it’s a WHORE in my book. It’s like the hand that rocks the cradle. She befriended my husband and kids and then tried to move in for the kill. Megan Niswander is a HOMEWRECKER. She told me that we all needed to sit down and talk so he can decide who he wanted. She still lives next door because I can’t afford to move and does things acting like I took her man. Did she forget who has the ring? I still wonder if he is done but I’m staying for now to try to get back what we used to have.