I came home from work getting ready to lay down and watch a movie with my husband whe n his phone went off I was in the kitchen getting a snack and his phone was in his coat pocket in the kitchen so I of course grabbed his phone and seen a number I didn’t know and a message that said did u fall asleep on me ? I’m thinking his boys wouldn’t message him that so I brought it to his attention he says it’s a friend he hasn’t talked to in a long time which was true but he failed to tell me this friend was a girl! The next morning I see a friend request on Facebook and a message from this Melissa saying she sees he’s married and happy so why would he contact her! || I told her we were in fact happy and to please leave my husband alone! Time goes on me thinking he hasn’t talked to her anymore then to find out he is sti talking to her on Facebook because I blocked her number from his phone most of the convo was harmless until she starts calling him baby and telling him she misses him and that she thinks they would b so good together! I once again message her and asked her to leave him alone but she of course wouldn’t respect my request so just Friday I seen she had sent him some pics some naked he didn’t respond to the pics or ask for them! No they have never met she lives 6 hours away and he don’t drive but even though messages are not as bad as physical contact it’s still cheating in my book and for this chick to continue after me asking her not to just proves she has set out to ruin my marriage and try to take my husband!