I met my current husband now Kevin in May 2011. At the time, he was living with his Best friend Chris in Chris’s home. Chris had recently been divorced from his wife Shelly and she had been kicked out and Chris kept the house. I am not sure on the details of their divorce but I was told that she somehow got an STD and that’s the reason why as far as I know. || I started dating Kevin and shortly after that I moved into the house with him and Chris. Everything was going great until May 2012. Kevin and I had gone to bed. He fell asleep and I took the opportunity to look in his phone. I didn’t know his password so I guessed. I got it on the first try! I looked in his texts. I saw he had been texting with someone who wasn’t saved as a contact in his phone. The last text had been about an hour before that. I opened up the thread. The first thing I saw was a text that he had sent saying,”I’ve always thought you were pretty.” My blood pressure shot through the roof. My blood was boiling. I kept scrolling through the messages and I came across a picture of himself standing in the mirror holding his d**k. What the hell! I kept scrolling and I saw a picture of Shelly. The roommates ex wife. His best friends recent ex wife. I flipped out. We argued, I packed my shit right then and there and went home to my parents. He was sooooo sorry. He wanted me back. He eventually told me that after Chris and Shelly got a divorce he slept with her once. But, that was before he met me. I’m an idiot and took him back. || Fast forward to July 2012. He asked me to marry him. I said yes. Set our wedding date for August 2013. Fast forward to November 2012. I found out I was pregnant. Baby due July 2013. So happy! Getting married and having a baby. Olivia our daughter was born July 8th 2013. 6 weeks before our August 31st 2013 wedding. Best day of our lives. Olivia was everything to us. So beautiful. We got married in August and started the rest of our lives. After the wedding it all seemed to go downhill. Our wedding night he got so drunk and mean to me. He wound up actually going to jail our wedding night because he was so out of control. He was verbally abusive and physically abusive. My brother in law called the cops on him. I stayed with my parents again for 2 weeks after the wedding. He promised to quit drinking and get into therapy. I went back to him, again. Idiot. Everything went well for a couple months. He was working on getting better. He wasn’t drinking. But all of a sudden he didn’t seem interested in me anymore. We rarely had sex. He worked a lot. I was stuck home taking care of our daughter. I found through snooping that he was taking male enhancement pills, he was doing meth and snorting his ADHD medication. He was also looking at a lot of porn. We weren’t having sex so I didn’t understand why he was taking male enhancement pills. Well again I’m an idiot and stayed with him for the sake of our daughter. I knew our relationship was only hanging by a thread. He started going back to therapy and had been diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder. He just recently started a year long program for BPD. I thought this is it. He’s finally going to get better. He wants to get better. Last week I was cleaning our house. I pulled the couch away from the wall to vacuum. I saw a hair clip on the floor behind the couch. It was not mine. I sent a text out to every woman I know that had been in our new place since we moved in there in March of 2014. It didn’t belong to anyone. I had spent a few weekends out of town since we moved in and he stayed home so I knew he had someone over. I approached him about the hair clip and he denied it. I just let it go because I am an an idiot. || So, just now this last week a week after I found the hair clip. I found something else out. It was Tuesday July 8th 2014. Our daughters 1st Birthday. He had fallen asleep and I was about to put our daughter to bed for the night. He had his phone on the nightstand. I looked in it. I looked at the last apps he had recently used. It was a hotmail email app. What? He told me he didn’t have that email account anymore. So I opened it up and there was emails in there from Shelly. As recent as the the day before. She knows we are married and have a child together. The email contents were the same as the text messages I found 14 months prior. Sexual exchanges. Exchanges a woman who has a boyfriend and a man who is married should not be having. This is it. My life is turned upside down and now I have a daughter I have to think about. I sent her a message and Facebook and she seems to know quite a bit about my life. So they have been in contact for quite some time. This woman has threatens to use a gun on me. She called me fat. She said that I was never there for my husband. She’s as low as they get. This woman needs to stop ruining lives. Especially my daughters life. || I am so angry with the both of them. More importantly my husband but what kind of woman does this to a family? Marriage isn’t a joke. She thinks it is.