I was with my daughterís father for close to 6 years. This woman came into the picture around Nov-Dec of 2011. He and I would go to the Internet cafe by our house regularly and Michelle would be up there, usually with her mom. Well it came up that my exís mom and her mom went to school together so they all became friends. We would see her up there all the time and she always made it a point to strike up conversation with him, yet ignore me being there with him. || Well he and I started having some problems after we came back from a trip to Vegas in December. He knew she bothered me and we fought over her constantly since she would flirt and stuff right on front of me. So when we argued he’d say he wasn’t really at work that he was out with her and thing of that nature, I’m not sure if he was or just saying it to piss me off. So in March of 2012 I couldn’t handle the fighting anymore and decided to move back home with my mom with our daughter, we were staying with his parent at that time trying to save money for a house. We got in a huge fight and I packed my stuff and left. Apparently during all this Michelle was going through a divorce from her husband of 20 years, she’s 43. They somehow got to talking one night at the cafe about their problems and started to lean in each other for emotional support. According to him feelings started to develop between them and they started dating, while he and I were trying to still work out our problems. I didn’t find out for 3 months they were together. Once I found out I lost it because he was still sleeping with me and then going back to her without me knowing. I texted her in like August after it had been going on for months telling her he’s been cheating to leave him alone we were working stuff out. He would claim it was over and he loved me yet it never really was. || Fast forward to recent, they’ve been on and off since May of 2011. He’s been telling me he wants his family since then. Anyways we have a serious talk back in March of this year about us getting back together and getting an apartment and trying to work it out. So I find us an apartment, pay the deposit and first month and we move in. 3 days after moving in he gets a text from her saying she’s pregnant… I lost it again. They decided they were keeping it; he still lived here and went to his parents on weekends with our daughter, which I found out later he’d leave our daughter with his parents and go sleep at her house. Once I found that out I had to see the texts in his phone. He would tell me one thing and her another, so one night I snuck his phone while he was asleep and went thru it seeing all the”I love you and the baby” texts and her telling him she had her first craving at like 2 weeks along or whatever and I flipped, woke him up out of a dead sleep and demanded an explanation. He couldn’t give one other than”she’s pregnant Iím not just going to abandon her, I didn’t do that to you when you were pregnant”. I couldn’t understand why he was living with me and she was ok with that…what woman does that? She was really that desperate? So I dealt with the back and forth for. While until one day he gets a text saying she miscarried. As bad as it sounds -best day ever. I thought for sure after that it’d be over between them and he promised it was and things were good between us for a while. || The week of Father’s Day I found out he was still seeing and talking to her I was done, I packed all his stuff and told him get out, he went back to his parents, didn’t see his kid in Father’s Day because he was with her and has her around our kid every weekend that he has her. Still says he loves me and goes thru hoops to try to prove its over but it never is. It takes everything out of me not to want to hunt her down for the pain and anger they’ve put me thru for the last 2 years, I’ve text her telling her he’s $3000 behind in support and to stay away from my daughter but it does no good. She just bad mouths me and threatens to get me for harassment when all I want is for him to pay his support and her not be around the 6 days a month he sees his daughter. She’s manipulative, nasty and old and he fell into her trap because she has a little money so she can have him. I deserve better than him and one day she’ll get what she deserves.