Okay. I hate to even admit that I’d be with a guy that would do this to me, and yes…I’m still with him. Do I blame him? Yes. Do I blame her more? You bet your ass I do! || He’s known her for a few years. They used to be friends, and I guess they”tried” dating and it didn’t work out. Keep in mind; I let this bitch into my HOME, not knowing the skeevy tendencies she had towards MY man. He proposed to me in August of 2012, soon after, we found out we were expecting our daughter. In early October, he received a phone call from her around 1am. He was asleep and I didn’t answer it. Then she texted him, asking when he wanted to meet up like they”talked about”. I woke him up. I calmly asked what that was about, though inside I was furious. He said he didn’t know what the Hell she was taking about, saying she was crazy and had a crush on him. I let it go since he’d never done anything untrustworthy before. About a week later, she texted him while he was in the shower. It said,”I’m available after work if you want to do what we talked about”. At this point, I’m in tears. I text her back as him, asking what we talked about doing, I said I’d forgotten. She replied with,”talk about your relationship with that bitch and figure out how to get you out of it”, with a winky face. I’m fuming. I storm into the bathroom and flush the toilet so the water freezes his lying ass. We yell and scream for a good hour, while he stands there completely naked and shivering, since I was holding his towel hostage. I get his phone and stand there while he calls her. The phone is on speaker so I can hear everything. He tells her he can’t speak to her anymore. She makes some shitty comment about me, at which point I grab the phone. I tell her,”Back the fuck off, you’re a no-good, shitty piece of trash and you’re no longer a part of his life” and hung up. She tried calling back SEVEN freaking times. I called Verizon and had her number blocked. || Things were great until June of this year. He wasn’t talking to her; she wasn’t even a thought in my mind. One day while he was at work, I logged into his email to get a confirmation letter for my daughter’s insurance and I saw an email that said”lover boy” in the subject line. || What I saw will always make my skin crawl. || They had been exchanging emails for months! He even had a secret Facebook account just so he could see her pictures. I logged into the account and checked the”blocked users” list. Sure enough, I was on there, along with everyone we know that would possibly tell me about the secret account. || Again, we fought for hours about this. I threatened to keep his daughter from him. I even took his phone away, since I pay the bill. After a month or so, I allowed him to take his phone to work, but he had to give it to me the second he came home. I put a lock on it and used a new lock every day while it was in my possession. || Eventually, I trusted him with his phone again. I started to get suspicious when a friend that knows Michelle said she brought him up in conversation recently. I used an app on my phone that lets you choose a fake, untraceable number to text whomever you want. I texted him as her while we were watching a movie together. He went right back to flirting with her! I said I’d moved. He asked why and I said”all the men in that town suck”. His reply?”I could have been the one that made you stay…” || I almost threw my phone at his head! || He still doesn’t know it was me that night. I didn’t bring it up. I don’t think I ever will. Honestly…I love him so much and I don’t plan on leaving him.