My mother has been married to my dad for thirty years. For the past 20 months; our life has been awful… Thanks to my dad and my aunt Michelle. I’m writing this because me and my sister has had a hard time dealing with this whole thing. We can’t even imagine what our mother has been going thru, thru the past 20 months. She has done her best to make sure me and my sister have had a normal life; as possible. My uncle Tim died; November 6th, 2011. Him and my aunt Michelle have been married for 25 years. The day he died; my aunt Michelle and my dad started having an affair. He cheated on my mother, with a home wrecker. 20 years ago she had another affair with my uncle Jeff. She deceived my aunt Judy. The family never shunned her; we were all good to her. I want her to know what she did to our family. || My mother has been trying to work things out with my dad, and give him the chance to make this up. But me and my twin sister, don’t even want her to give him another chance. He is a narcissist and a pathological liar. Even though we love him, because he is our dad… The truth is the truth. Michelle does not even come close to being the lady that my mother is. He will never ever get another woman like my mother. If she could be strong enough to get rid of him, he would finally get what he deserves. He does not deserve a woman like my mother. She is way too good for him. And he knows it. My mother is almost 53 years old, she has never drank or smoke or did any drugs, and she has been a great mother to me, my sisters, and brother. Everyone who knows her, knows that she is a wonderful woman. She is so generous with everyone; she has done so much things with my schools over the past ten years. Even though I love my dad, I hate what he has done to my mother. She is always nervous, and I see her spoil him all the time and he doesn’t deserve it. He treats her like she is a slave. After he “supposedly” ended the affair with my aunt, he was getting on porno websites; he is a six foot six man that weighs almost three hundred pounds, and my mother has always treated him like a king. If my mother can ever be brave enough to get away from him, his health will go downhill fast… because he will not have her to take care of him anymore. I believe you reap what you sew. || In a way, I think he really loves my mother, but he knows he isn’t good enough for her. And once he doesn’t have her anymore he will regret what he has done to her. He is too stupid to realize, that if he would rid his mind of his lust and deceitfulness, my mother would always be there for him. Like I say, he is stupid. He is so dumb he’s going to lose my mother. and when he does, he will lose his two daughters too. The last 20 months he has been a terrible father to us, and tried to make him feel like this is all our fault, but the truth is……… he’s the one that did wrong, and the one who needs to pay the price. Not my mother. Like I say; you reap what you sew. As good as my mother has been to him, and everyone else, I know she is going to be just fine if she gets rid of him, because someone who does as much for people as she does, will have good things return to her. I just wish he would wake up and use his brain to make things better for our family. || She is what you call the scum of the earth. A true black widow spider. I HATE her.