This homewrecker/gold digger, 17 years younger than me, lived with my ex husband’s best friend. She started this affair with husband, by constantly texting him and always being around. My Dad was sick, and I had to leave town. I had felt something was wrong, but thought better of my husband, after all, we had two boys together, she was living with his friend, we had been together for 16 years, and had a pretty stable relationship. || She had come to me, saying she wanted a job. I was not going to hire her, but then my ex, Frank stepped in and said Jim, the boyfriend, had asked if we could give her a job. Lie no. 1 I found, she had been the one contacting my husband for a job. Anyway, I hired her, and gave her special treatment because she was Jim’s girlfriend. My Dad was on his deathbed, and I had to leave town. This phony hooker was offering so much help, and oh…anything she could do. My Dad died, my husband should have been with me but he was too busy screwing her. She attending my Dad;s funeral even, and made a big social event out of introducing herself to all my family. Quite an inside joke, she was informing them of who she was so they would be sure to know who was screwing my husband. I was too busy, too much in grief, and even though my husband was distant, I assumed it was because of everything that was going on. The next week, we were both working at the bar my husband and I owned, and she asked me if I thought Frank would ever leave me for another woman. Ha ha, I told her no, my husband loved me. Little did I know. || My daughter’s wedding had been planned for two weeks after my Dad’s death in Las Vegas. My husband threw a fit about having to go, saying he didn’t have time and he didn’t want to spend money, said our businesses were going to go broke cause all I wanted to do was spend money. Other than pitching in for my Dad’s funeral, I wasn’t spending money, and we were actually making more money than I even knew because he had already started plotting on how to get rid of me, and he was getting his plan together with her. When we got to Vegas, my husband threw a fit and said he should get to walk down the aisle with my daughter, so my daughter compromised and him walk down the aisle with her and her Dad. I do not know what it was, but he had to do some sick things to us. He decided while we were down there, to buy a house in Vegas. When the house closed a month later, he sent me there with the boys (it was summer), so I could fix up the house and rest, because of all the sadness I felt from losing my Dad. I had been very close to my Dad, and my Dad had spent months helping us with our properties. || I thought my husband was being loving and sweet for a change, but he was just getting rid of me to screw her. It all blew up at the end of the summer. I was in shock, and disbelief over it all. I called the homewrecker, and said to her, please don’t do this, please don’t do this to my kids, they just lost their Grandfather, please do not let them lose their dad. She laughed in my face and said she’d think about it. He rubbed her in my face constantly, sleeping with her in the apartment we had next to the office where I worked every day, having her drive the new car he bought, pulling up with her outside the other businesses we had, having dinner with her and her kids in our restaurant. My sons got to see that through the window, and he disowned them too, telling me to take his last name off theirs. Hurtful, mean and hateful. Of course he did not want me at work, because he had been robbing me blind. I tried to have the police remove her from the property, but the police said she could be there if it was ok with Frank. Those bastards could do something, but wouldn’t. Thought it was funny. Anyway, she got pregnant. They went on a vacation after vacation, including ditching me and the kids at Christmas to go on a two week Princess Cruise to Panama…10,000, he hardly ever went anywhere with me, and certainly not for two weeks. Now, she gets to go on a three week vacation to the El Dorado hotel in Puerto Vallarta every three months now, after I had worked my fingers to the bone for him,. 9,000 diamond ring he bought her too, 15,000 furniture. He spent an easy 50k in just a few months on her, and left me to live on nothing, and mind you, I was part owner, had everything tied up because he was one of the good old boys in town. Half the stuff he did wasn’t legal, but he got away with it due to his family name. They even did this to her boyfriend too. She stayed living in his house for a few more months with him still in it. Would have Frank stay all night, then in the morning, they would go to the apartment by the office. He had to stay somewhere else, and it was his house. Purely about keeping control of the money and the businesses. || Smug little harlot went around threatening and firing my employees, telling me I couldn’t be on my own property, making up lies and making false reports to the police about me too. The physical, emotional, mental, financial abuse inflicted upon my by this man I had so believed in was tremendous, and nobody, not ever the lawyer I paid a fortune for would help me in trying to put my family back together. I loved my husband, and after being together for so many years, I still do not know how he could do this to me or why. Anyways – they need to be called out for the dishonest, treacherous liars and cheats they are. These are people whose only concern is all about them and the money. As for a true legal definition of what marriage is supposed to be, I couldn’t truly find one, and there definitely is no respect for the institution of marriage in Wyoming. There is SOOOO much more, but it would take me days of writing.