I’ve been sitting on this story for awhile struggling with trying to get through this whole ordeal. I’m hoping that finally telling my story out loud will finally give me closure. Last August my husband and I seperated due to many reasons but mostly financial and honesty issues relating to finances. We still saw each other quite a bit and he told me constantly that he loved me and would do anything to fix our marriage. As soon as one of his good friends / employee and his wife found out we were seperated they were very eager to” help” us work things out. Both approaching me at our children’s bus stop telling me how sad he was. The wife misty kept asking if there was any hope of working things out. I told her many times that I loved him but he just wouldn’t be honest and do the work needed to fix our marriage. In the meantime George and misty kept my husband from being lonely by hanging out with him and partying till all hours of the night. In early November I started becoming suspicious of my husband and Misty’s friendship when he began driving her car around… || On November 7th he asked me to pick up her kids from the bus stop because he had her car. I offered to take them to her house and he said no just keep them she’s been drinking and doesn’t want you to see her like that. He picked up the kids and returned them to the homewrecker and told me that he would return to my house for our sons birthday party later that evening. An hour into the birthday party my husband informed me that he had to leave because misty had threatened to commit suiside and took off into the desert with a bag of pills. They had and entire search party out looking for her. I told myself he was just being a concerned friend and went on with my sons party without him. In December I got a message from misty asking if I wanted to work things out with my husband because if not she had a crush on him. I asked her to butt out.at thus point I started investigating by breaking into my husbands email, Facebook and text messages. I found some questionable texts and pictures exchanged between them. After several attempts of getting him to confess he finally told me that they had gotten drunk and had sex once and on two other occasions she had given him oral sex. He told me that she initiated all of the activity but he enjoyed the attention. According to him he told her on several occasions that while he enjoyed it at the time what they did was wrong and he really wanted to get his family back. He believes that’s why she pulled the suiside card (turns out she was just drunk sitting under a tree). The night my husband confessed he went to mistys husband and confessed to him as well and told misty that he didn’t want any contact with her. As the months rolled on misty continued to text my husband and show up at his work. He tells me right away when she does this. In march my husband and I went to a local concert where we ran into misty and her husband. Misty had been drinking and wanted to fight me. I told her no she was to drunk if she wanted to go at it when she sobered up I wod be more than happy to participate. Anyway she kept on and tried to hit me so I clobbered her. The next morning she posted a long post tagging me on Facebook that I had been unfaithful and how she had slept with my husband. We live in a small town so all of our friends and family saw it. I was mortified to say the least. My husband and I are still seperated but going to therapy trying to fix our marriage but she still tries to contact him. I just want to put this out there so other married girls might think twice before befriending her.