My nightmare started in approximately 11/2009. Everything was great between my husband and me (so I thought). We were just coming into our very first anniversary in February of 2010 and I couldn’t have asked for a better husband. Needless to say, I completely trusted him. I have no clue why I decided to look at the phone bill that month, as I have not done this before, but I did. To my surprise there were HUNDREDS of calls to a 909 area code. || Being that we live in AZ I found this to be strange. Granted, my husband is a truck driver that is home on the weekends and he travels weekly through California. Some of these calls were 160, 170 minutes long and sever times a day! Immediately I called him and asked what this number was and to my surprise HE TOLD ME! He told me that it was his ex-girlfriend that dumped him when he went into the military right out of high school! I flipped out! He told me that they were just catching up, blah, blah. I told him I know better! Of course when he got home all hell broke loose and he agreed he wouldn’t talk to her anymore. So, later that weekend I went to gather his laundry from his rig and I found a radio shack receipt for a throw away phone, charger and minutes, but no phone. I was completely heartbroken again….after he told me she meant nothing, and she wasn’t worth his marriage and child, he went behind my back and contacted her. I asked him why? He told me he wanted to let her know that he couldn’t talk to her anymore, blah, blah. She definitely mattered to him for some reason. || I didn’t know if he ever slept with this HW, but knowing her record for stealing husbands, they probably did. Apparently, she ran off with her best friendís husband in the past (according to my husband). I also asked him why he would want a piece of crap like that in his life and his reply was “I wanted closure because she dumped me and didn’t give me a reason”. That is the lamest excuse I have ever heard! We have been in marriage counseling since this. Recently, I get this message from my husbandís ex-wife on FB. She is telling me that my husband has a fake FB profile and he is (from what she can see) conversing with the HW again! She offered to send me the screenshots but I cannot handle this crap right now, it makes me physically ill. || Apparently they can’t leave each other alone, and she was made aware (by me through a nasty note on FB) that he is a married man with kids! I know he is as much to blame as he is but she is well aware he is married. Apparently, they have met on several occasions during this affair also. Please, if you live in this area, keep your man away from this homewrecker, she has no respect for marriage. Recently, he admitted to me that there was inappropriate smut talking between them and sex. I vomited when I heard this. I threw him out after everything came out and I have my divorce papers prepared to file. Now those two disgusting pigs can finally be together!