Her name is Naomi Bashful from Oxnard, CA. She put the “H” in homewrecker. She basically uses places of worship as her hunting ground but has sought prey in other venues as well…ALL of them married men or soon to be married men. Often goes by “Beauty” (for what reason I have yet to figure out) and “Lady Bashful’ though there is nothing bashful about her forward and aggressive behavior toward men who have spouses or who are engaged. She believes she is the finest thing this side of heaven. || My story starts out innocent enough. Two people working in the same industry (my husband being one and she being the other) As he comes to relieve her shift she finds every reason in the book not to leave but sit around and chat bearing her problems on his ear disclosing her illicit affairs with married men and how proud she was for being discreet and really poured it on. Their chats eventually turned to intimate conversations and texts (which I later discovered) and then the act of intimacy itself. As he listened to her stories of affairs with several married men, some of them members in the same circles, he was being reeled in like a bug into a spider’s web. Men can be so dumb sometimes.In the meantime, I am noticing a difference in his acts and show of affection toward me. I am noticing that I can never get through to him on his cell and his hours coming home become later and later. This is raising suspicion in my mind and I asked him about Naomi point blank as I sensed her Jezebel behavior and was lied to. He led me to believe she was just a woman who needed help in an unwanted pregnancy (by a married man) and used my husband as a sounding board (more like a headboard if you ask me).I was finally notified of the affair by a close friend by way of Naomi running her big mouth and bragging about it. When I confronted my spouse, he denied it at first but then came clean as he realized he did not want a life without me in it (well the jury is still out on that one) but she on the other hand continued to lie until I let her know that he confessed at which point she told me that Yes, there had been an act of adultery. Now, none of us is perfect, I know that but here is a woman (with childlike behavior) who was not only my friend on Facebook but also saw me on a weekly basis and smiled and talked to me like I was truly her pal. Even went so far as to brag about her extremely large bust size to me…as if I was interested in something like that but I chalked it up to her immaturity.My warning is this: If your husband has any interaction with this childlike woman, you need to investigate. Leave nothing to chance, she is cunning, conniving and calculating. She is looking for a husband but doesn’t not have the guts to get one on her own so she seeks those that at already married. )(Even though none of her victims have left their wives for her). She likes them ready made.We will be seeing each other in court very soon as I file suit for Alienation of Affection. Here is some of the criteria if you are interested in doing the same thingAlienation of AffectionAlienation of affection is a lawsuit generally brought by a deserted spouse against a boyfriend or girlfriend alleged to be responsible for the failure of the marriageTo win a case of alienation of affection, you must prove that: || Plaintiff and spouse were happily married and a genuine love and affection existed between them;The existing love and affection was alienated; andThe malicious conduct of defendant was a cause of the loss and alienation of such love and affection.Relevant EvidenceEvidence that shows that the Plaintiff and his or her spouse were happily married before the non-innocent spouse met the defendant such as photos, videos, cards, letters, and testimony of the parties, friends, neighbors and other witnesses. Evidence of adultery with the Defendant is helpful but not required. Evidence of malice on the part of the defendant such that the defendant knew of the Plaintiffâ€™s marriage to the non-innocent spouse, lack of caution, evil intent, emails, writings, cards, receipts, etc.