My husband met this idiot in a self-help group. She knew he was married but slept with him anyway. She told me it started out as just an affair but then she fell in love with him. He plays a lot of poker and would use that as an excuse to be out during the week and weekends. Little did I know he was going to her house to poke-her…I guess if you twist the truth then you arenít lying??? One day during summer of 2013…a year after they have been together. He butt dials my cell number and I hear him grilling some woman why she didnít get dressed or take a shower and her pleading to him…why are you so upset with me??? Then he is saying that where ever they are it smells like cum…”Did you f**k someone” he yells at her..”NOOOO” she yells back…You know I wouldnít do that!!!” Before he left the house that day he said he had to go help a friend fix a door…HER DOOR…I found a phone number and kept it and thought…maybe itís the woman he is yelling at.† I called it and IT WAS HER!!! I recognized the voice so I said; hello this is Sue, Darrynís wife.† Why is he there at your house and what business is it of his that you didnít shower? SILENCE. Next thing I know he was on the phone. HELLO he says, I say, itís me…your wife I say…what the F **k are you doing at some womanís house grilling her if she showered or had sex with someone? †He hung up. Massive fight when he came home. || A couple of weeks later she had the balls to come to my house and admit they were not just friends and she loved him and she felt bad that I didnít know where he was all the time and thought we could have an arrangement to call each other when he was with me. I would call her for peace of mind and vice versa. I told her she is retarded if she thinks Iím going to share him with anyone. TAKE HIM HE IS YOURS…her response…I donít want him all the time…just once in a while! I guess just for booty calls. I told her thatís not love, thatís lust and just sex. Sheís a whore and now she has to live with the fact that she is breaking up a marriage. Why canít we just share him was her response, plenty of cultures have multiple wives/partners. †I told her to go to wherever that may be and take him with you. || So my husband decides to stop seeing her only because he has been caught and he caught her in some lies. He can lie and its ok but donít lie to him. So on the way home one night from work, I work nights; I had this funny feeling to swing by her house. She told me exactly where she lives when she was at my house and there was my husbandís car in her driveway. I went up to the door POUNDING on it. It took a while, a minute or two for the door to open and I cursed them both out at the top of my lungs at 12 midnight. I took off my wedding ring and threw it at him inside the house screaming YOUĒRE A WHORE, a CUNT..HEY EVERYONE..WAKE UP..A PROSTITUTE LIVES IN YOUR NEIGHBORHOOD…I screamed her name and address out for the whole quiet neighborhood to hear. Youíre a f**king liar I told my husband…you said you would have no contact with her and I find you here? We both drove away…but before we did she said she was calling the cops. She did and she got a domestic violence report because I wasnít there when the cops came so thatís all they could do for this idiot. She sent me a text to tell me of it and a copy in a picture text and said if I contact her again I could be arrested. She has a teenage daughter so it also included jeopardizing the welfare of a minor. She also let me know of a person we both know casually that just happens to have a daughter that is dating her ex-husband. I got a call from that person weeks later and told that woman the connection between Nicole and my husband and she was shocked. I guess it got back to Nicole and she called me to tell me if I donít stop talking about HER she was going to come to my job to show people a video on her phone of her and my husband having sex and embarrass me…I LAUGHED IN HER EAR…YOU ARE RETARDED!!!!!>>>WHY WOULD I BE EMBARRASSED OF YOU …YOU FAT COW…BEING IN A SEX VIDEO WITH MY HUSBAND.???!!!!..ITS NOT ME THAT WOULD MAKE A FOOL OF MYSELF…YOU WOULD BE…COME TO MY JOB!!!…IM SURE EVERYONE COULD USE A GOOD LAUGH OR YOURE GONNA MAKE THEM SICK!!!!….SHE HUNG UP. || So my husband supposedly wants nothing to do with her. I donít care where she is or what she does as long as HE stays away from her. He didnít even cheat with a nicer looking or skinnier woman…she looks like the Pillsbury Dough boy, but uglier and fatter. If she were a Barbie doll because I’m not, I could comprehend the attraction more. Now we are still together. We have been together 21 yrs. I donít know what the future is going to be but Iíve never experienced anything like this or heard of anyone so desperate or retarded they would ask the wife in person to share their husband. I think my husband really saw how stupid the situation was and woke up. Also the fact that she said she didnít want him 100% made an impression on his ego. || I have not forgiven, I wonít forget and he has not apologized…so I donít know what the future will bring. I will not tolerate another woman taking time, energy, attention, love or lust away from me again. FIND YOU OWN MAN. That is my advice to all who are or have been the”other” woman. Do your homework and if he tells you he is married, run!† Because if you think you get him in the end he’s going to pull the same crap on you as he did to wife before you. All I’m doing right now is leaving it in godís hands….and yes I know my legal alternatives…knowledge is power.