We have been together for 5 years. We have two small children, a 3 year old son and a newborn daughter. Our daughter was 3 months premature and was sent to the NICU for 79 days. Baby was still in the NICU when this happened. We meet the homewrecker through a friend my husband worked with. The homwrecker had just moved in with her boyfriend. Well, I was dropping my husband off at work and going to the hospital then picking him up. She knew me and our family situation and still went after him. We were going through a rough time and she saw it as an opportunity. She started texting him and going to his job. Our”friends” he worked with knew and seemed to encourage it. I kept asking about the new number in his phone and he said it was someone from work. I had surgery and he was talking to her while I was under. Afterward we went to the hospital with our daughter and he left me there and went to meet her. On memorial day he went to the beach with our”friends” and she went too. Our”friends” lied and helped him cover it up. I had a feeling something was up so I checked his phone and FB. There were texts and messages saying they missed each other. Her number was all over his call log. She was sending him pics. I confronted him and he lied initially. After more detective work it all came out. He said he wasn’t happy and he needed time. He left me at the hospital with our sick baby with nowhere to go and no money. I was heartbroken. The nurses were my only comfort. || Well, I sent her messages on FB calling her a whore and telling her she destroyed my family, she knew he was married and she tried to be my friend. I outed them on FB. Our”friend” tried to comfort me during this all the while she was helping them see each other. Another friend told me more. He laid out of work and went swimming with her while I was with the baby. He had left his Moms camera at our friends and she gave it to me. It was full of pics of them and our friends. I felt so betrayed . I went to his job and went off. I called him on his bull and our”friends” for their lies. I got an attorney. || A few days later he said he wanted to work things out with me. He wanted to take responsibility for his behavior and save our family. I told him if we didn’t have small kids I wouldn’t even consider it. We are in a trial of trying to fix things.