Noelle Denise Pacheco Garcia Pasadena, Texas Texas

Back story: || My husband I had been married for 5 years before this home wrecker came in the picture. I had 2 kids that I brought into the marriage and we had 1 together. || It was the summer of 2011 and I was working second shift (3-11) which meant that he was with the kids in the evening after he got of work. He CLAIMS it was loneliness and boredom that started him on Facebook. || Noelle was a woman that he grew up in school with . We are in GA but she is in TX. She is married as well, and has 4 children of her own. She does not work, can’t drive, and depends on her husband for everything who is gone a lot with his job. That gives her nothing but free time to play in the internet looking for her next victim. She spends all day, every day, dressing up, putting on wigs, false eye lashes and loads of makeup to take pictures of herself. She posts on MANY websites to get attention. Insecurity at its finest! || My husband reconnected with her, as I said before, on FB and started

Back story: || My husband I had been married for 5 years before this home wrecker came in the picture. I had 2 kids that I brought into the marriage and we had 1 together. || It was the summer of 2011 and I was working second shift (3-11) which meant that he was with the kids in the evening after he got of work. He CLAIMS it was loneliness and boredom that started him on Facebook. || Noelle was a woman that he grew up in school with . We are in GA but she is in TX. She is married as well, and has 4 children of her own. She does not work, can’t drive, and depends on her husband for everything who is gone a lot with his job. That gives her nothing but free time to play in the internet looking for her next victim. She spends all day, every day, dressing up, putting on wigs, false eye lashes and loads of makeup to take pictures of herself. She posts on MANY websites to get attention. Insecurity at its finest! || My husband reconnected with her, as I said before, on FB and started talking. He was busy, but she had nothing but time to give him the attention that he needed. After all, I was working and busy taking care of 3 kids while they were on summer break. My husband and this skank would talk all day via text, IM and FB while he was at work and then of course since I was not home in the evenings he would call her and they would talk on the phone for hours. || My husband started sleeping on the couch by the end of the summer. We were having problems with his family, and I was working such weird hours that I thought the stress was getting to him. It didn’t bother me that he needed some time, because at that point I trusted him. A few weeks after he started sleeping on the couch my daughter told me that she heard daddy talking to a woman on the phone one night while I was at work. She didn’t hear his conversation, but she did hear the woman laugh when he had dropped something in the kitchen. My daughter KNEW it was not my laugh. I kept my cool that night but as soon as I could I logged into FB and started looking through his friends list. Not only had he friended her, but also her whole family. It was obvious who he was talking to. || My first thought was”what a whore!” and I couldn’t believe that she had kids and husband as well. I confronted my husband and he didn’t deny it. At this point, she was giving him everything that lacked in our marriage. Attention. Silly me, I thought I was a good wife for working 40+ hours a week, taking care of 3 kids and running our house. I didn’t know that he needed me to fill his ego nonstop too. Guess mama forgot to teach me that part when she was teaching me how to be a good mom. || Shortly after the confirmation, I kicked his ass out. He went to live with his mama where he continued his relationship with Mrs. Garcia. Hundreds of text, pictures, I love you’s back and forth. I found out later that he was looking for a house to move her and her 4 kids here to Georgia. What a JOKE!! During the time he was at his momís house he was coming to my house almost every night asking for sex. He would call me or text me in the middle of the day asking if he could come over and have dinner with the kids and I, or if he could see the kids for a few hours. ANYTHING to get back in the door. Then all of a sudden POOF he was gone. No calls, no texts nothing. He wouldn’t even answer his phone when the kids called. I called his mom to see if he was ok, but she was gone too. A few days later his mom called and said they were together working in SC at a friendís house. Seemed odd since my husband HAD a full time job that he had been at for 4 years. I didn’t think his mom would lie to me. || A week later I saw his car pass my house. So I called him. He said he had been sick with strep and when he felt better he would come see the kids. I bought the story. A few days passed and he came over. His tone was different this time. He was sweet, and started to tell me how he had made a mistake. He talked about moving home, but I KNEW there was more going on. I asked him to stay and I got him drunk. When he passed out, I grabbed his phone and LORD HAVE MERCY I hit the jack pot. There were tons of pictures of him and her together her FB, Him and her with HER family going out to eat, him and her going out, him and her in hotels. And then there were the texts. She was telling him all about”the baby” EXCUSE ME? From the dates on the pictures I saw that he had only been back in GA for 2 weeks (after spending a week in TX with her AND his mother) So, if she was pregnant then that would make her only 3 weeks pregnant….and who the heck knows they are pregnant at 3 weeks? At that point I knew exactly the type of person I was dealing with. A manipulative little hussy who is only good for making babies and”securing” her income. when I called her from his phone she denied the whole thing. Said it was her sister who was pregnant. Yea, ok. Whatever. I didn’t believe there was a baby from the BEGINNING. || As soon as I confronted my husband about the”baby” he broke down and said what a mistake he had made. He told me what a horrible mother she was, and how if she was pregnant with his child he wanted to take custody. He admitted to her giving him HERPES and told me that one of her daughters was fathered by her husbandís brother. He told me that he wants to repair our relationship at ANY cost and begged for forgiveness. I told him the first step would be to cut all ties with her. He called her and told her he was coming home and that after the baby was born he wanted a DNA test and we would go from there. To continue her game of manipulation she blocked all contact with him. As months went on she wouldn’t answer when and if we asked about the baby. My husband tried to contact her family solely for the purpose of finding out the details of the pregnancy. Nothing. No one would talk to us. Her family thought that my husband was her meal ticket out of poverty and they were all mad that he had decided to stay with me, his wife. || I told my husband that I would bet a million bucks she has a”miscarriage” and what do yah know. Weeks later she contacts him and tells him she lost the baby. HA! He asked for paperwork and she said he didn’t deserve to see it. I found out later that she did send him a picture of the hospital paper work. However, he knew that she had miscarriage years before and he couldn’t see a date on the picture that she sent him. If she was 6 months along as she claimed to be, she would have known the sex of the baby. However, she wouldn’t tell my husband anything. She claims she never had a ride to the doctor to get checked out either, and she told him that I caused her so much stress and that is why she lost the”baby”. Must have been the stress from posting their sex pictures all over the internet. Yea, I found that on his laptop. Woopsy. I posted her naked pictures everywhere. Even posted their home made porn to 4 different sites. If you are woman enough to screw a married man, you should be woman enough to handle what HIS WIFE WILL DO TO YOU! || Anyway, so after some time things got back to”normal”. Then one morning his phone went off while he was in the shower. I couldn’t help myself but to look. It was her. AGAIN. Sending pictures of her breasts to him. Telling him how much she loves him and misses him and canít wait to hold him in her arms again. WTF! Are you kidding me? I took him back and she is STILL in our lives? Even after all of her lies? I filed for divorce the same day. || This has been 2 years ago now. I know they are still in contact with each other. Iím sure itís not daily, or even weekly, but I know they still talk from time to time. Any time he is at a low point with me, she is always there with a listening ear. Our divorce is still pending. I at times want to fix our relationship, but then at times I want to say screw it and I want to just get the divorce over with. I know itís been 2 years but I think Iím just still in shock over this piece of trash whore. She has NOTHING on me. NOTHING. Not looks, not money, not integrity, not education, not stability, NOTHING. I have worked so hard to keep our family going in the right direction. I am always striving for a better life, and Iím doing a good job getting us there. Why do I keep him around? Because I love him. He IS a good father to our 3 girls. As a husband he’s crap, but as a dad he is amazing! I just don’t know that Iím strong yet to deal with life after I separate him from the kids. When we are around them together you would never know that we were not a 100% happy family. Itís when we are alone with each other that my claws come out. I get the phrase ďI stayed with my husband because of the kids”. I never understood it before. But I do now. || I’m sure she has already found another home to wreck. She needs to in order to feel important. Instead of going to school, or getting a job to make herself feel accomplished, she has to take weak men and try to manipulate her way to better life. She is nothing but an emo attention seeking slut. I feel sorry for HER husband, since my husband was not her first affair and Iím positive he wonít be her last. Her insecurities are pathetic. She is about to be 30 years old. With 3 daughters of her own (who were laid up in the hotel with her) what is she teaching the next generation? She TOLD her girls to tell him they loved him. She told her girls he was going to be their new daddy. Thank God for that because that is exactly what changed my husbandís mind about her. In the end, I don’t know what will happen with my decision. Itís only a decision that I can make. My family knows everything and has been more than forgiving. I don’t bother talking to his mother anymore; besides, sheís too busy with her own affair. Guess the apple does not fall too far from the tree… || || >

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