My husband and I were married in Nov 2000. We struggled financially the first 4 years of our marriage. We both worked, sometimes 2 jobs. I never had reason to doubt or not trust him. He was accepted into the Ca Dept of Corrections academy in July 2003. || I continued working for him to go to the 4 month academy full time. By 2006 we were able to buy our own home and were no longer struggling financially. I became ill in 2007 and had to undergo a year long medical treatment. I was no longer able to work due to several health issues. My husband got a promotion to Sgt in June 2009 and was transferred to work another prison where he became her supervisor. She knew he was married as she’d been to our home. I had also taken meals to him and the officers working overtime, her included. Nov 17 2009, The night before I found out, we had been intimate. He told me how blessed was to have me as his wife how much he loved me. Words he often expressed and showed. Next morning as he walks out the door for work he hits me with”oh yeah I donít want to be married anymore.” I was devastated. I started the sleuth work and soon found out he had been secretly seeing this homewrecker since September. I found over 500 texts and phone calls between them and emails. || On our 9th anniversary, one week after telling me he didnít want to be married, I was served divorce papers. I confronted him about her and he denied it although he was living with her. They had a baby together before our divorce was even final. All I can say is trash deserves trash and what comes around goes around.