I don’t care if home wreckers don’t mind being the sideline girl, but when you come and intervene in my ball park you are going to get what’s coming to you. My story is truly sad due to the fact that we were the true black power couple to our family and friends. We’re not rich but extremely rich in love. The nightmare started one day while my husband was taking a shower and I was keeping him company while in the bathroom as I had done for many years. He said I have something to tell you laughing as if it was nothing serious, so I replied what’s up. Then he says a kid from my old neighborhood (uptown) approached and asked if I was her dad. I remember laughing so hard because one thing I could confidently say about my husband is that no way in hell did he have a kid out there he didn’t take care of or not know about. NO WAY! He comes from a very good family as well as me, raised with morals and respect. We don’t know many people who have kids out there that they don’t take care of that totally isn’t our circle. So after the laugh he laughed to. Then I said what do you think he said baby I seriously doubt it all these years (kid was twelve at the time) and she said nothing. He then stated her dad name is on the birth certificate so he didn’t know where all of this was coming from. I told him not to worry we would get thru it together. Right before he told me this we had some minor marital issues but nothing I thought was very serious. A few weeks passed by and he didn’t mention the kid so I went on acting as if it would go away but deep in my heart I smelled bullshit but my husband soon turned on me. I swear this girl gave him an African voodoo curse because the person he turned into nobody knew, including his parents… || One day while cleaning our bedroom I find western union receipts made out to a Pamela Danso! I’m shocked not angry shocked. . . I confront him and he states that they’re poor and live with the girl Pam’s mother in a one bedroom in an apartment building. We live in an apartment building also but were in the process of buying a house. Plus I don’t live with my mother haven’t since I was 21years old. My husband got us a place when we were young and we still responsibly live there and handle our finances along with taking care of our children. He also states the little girl likes him and really wants him to be her dad. I thought that was a sweet thing to say and it worked over my soft side. Then one day I discover the mom has been texting him late at night so I ask him what’s the real deal! He then say she has mental issues she is depressed and lonely and wants some company. Say what! Please! He’s married Hun, to better figure out the situation I ask him if she and I could meet. He then says I wanted y’all to meet but she doesn’t want to meet you. Huh? Why not! No I’m feeling something fishy is going on. I contact her thru Facebook to see if I could get her number from her and talk about this situation. As soon as I hit the send button to, send the message to her, my husband is calling me. He’s mad and asking me why I didn’t let him handle it and I have no reason to be jealous or intimated by her. Wow! I asked him do you really believe I could be jealous or intimidated by a 30+ year old woman who lives with her mom and child and chasing a married man with this silly you are my baby daddy story! Child please is what I told him. Next! The story gets crazier considering I reached out to her respectfully and wanted to talk she didn’t so now I hold you responsible for seeing my husband. I felt no anger towards her grief or anything my marriage was strong and I was always the sun in his sunshine so I couldn’t understand why none of us could come to terms. I will tell you why her boyfriend came home from jail and aired her out she never mentioned anything of him we thought she was single but I learned thru the grapevine she wanted to be my husband’s wife!! Lmao. Her man said he took care of her and they were together for a long time. Then she throws her man out of her mother house how funny is that. This chick gets more pathetic. I found out she lied like this when they were kids my husband was very open with the situation and told me a lot. || She faked a pregnancy as a teenager and had a baby shower. Damn! Psycho! I learned she didn’t have custody of the kid in question she lost custody due to abuse. She smokes weed heavily and was seen using cocaine more than once. Her child would vent to my husband and say she hates her mom I felt really sad for this girl but once she was proven to not be my husbands I told him to fall back. He then says he is attached to her for the next year it was up down around and back around till my head felt like it would pop. I’m writing this so the people she knows and be around can see her phony psychotic ass for who she is. She talked about all of them but they aren’t part of this so I won’t mention what I know for facts! Had she handled this like a woman I would have never exposed her home wrecking ASS!!!