My husband was asked to work on a side project at work, which required him to work late. Often times he wouldn’t come home from work at all and stayed with his male co-worker that was working with him on the side project. After about 2 weeks of this, his male co-worker’s wife approached me and told me that my husband had never stayed at their house, but was going home every night with Paula and sleeping at her house, and riding to work with her every morning. I confronted her, and she laughed off an affair, and made it sound like my husband was just her friend and”needed a place to sleep”. I made it very clear to her in that phone call that he and I were happily married (or at least I thought we were), and also reminded her that we had a child. She was very sympathetic, very convincing, and eerily friendly with me. She convinced me I had nothing to worry about and that she was NOT at all interested in him romantically. This went on for about another 3 months off and on again behind my back. What I know now, is that this woman is a serial adulterer, a drunk, and a liar. She pursued more than one man that she worked with at this place of employment, and had several affairs and even slept with her boss’ married son. She has never to this day sought me out to apologize for what she did or for her actions/involvement. || What still haunts me to this day, is that even after he ended it with her; she actively pursued my husband, almost as if she had a vendetta against me or an evil point to prove. They caused me the deepest pain I have ever experienced in my life and I only hope one day she experiences even an iota of what I did at her and my husband’s hands. || She is the most vile woman I have ever known and her participation (and active pursuit) in this situation is something that I will probably never forgive her for. She is disgusting.