My soon to be ex-husband is in the Army, while he was in basic up until we got married on September 9,2012 I have lived at home with my family. He would come home and visit, we would talk constantly, and we kept in contact almost 24/7! Once he had gotten out of basic things were still going good and nothing had changed. || As of June 2011 after he had summer leave, he went back to base and started napping almost all day every day. I really didnít think much of it until I started getting messages from random girls telling me all he was doing with them and what he did with Rachel. All the other girls I soon find out to be just one night stands (still not ok) but not Rachel, with whom I forgot to mention, is also MARRIED with kids. Rachel and her husband had been going through a rough time with him being deployed, she was lonely and I had just found out about the other girls so it was constant arguing. They met up at her place and decided to have sex more than once for weeks on end. Soon her husband came home and they were arguing as well. Then my soon to be ex and Rachel met up at Hotels. || For a while he had dropped her completely and my dumbass decided to forgive him and as time went by we soon got married and had a beautiful daughter of our own. I was pregnant before we were married and he knew from the moment I had a positive. A MONTH before we got married (I was about 18 weeks pregnant) they did it all again. I didn’t find out until this Easter, 2 months after having our daughter. I made him choose me or her; he hesitated but blocked her from everything!! Some time had passed and nothing changed with him cheating so Iím FINALLY getting a divorce. || Below is a picture of her and her husband together.