My husband and I were married in August of 2001. We had dated for a couple of years prior to marriage. I was 20 and he was 23 when we met. We were happy in the beginning of our marriage, although it took us almost three rounds of fertility treatments to get pregnant and we had our first child in January of 2006. It was a difficult pregnancy but we had a healthy baby boy. I got pregnant again and lost our daughter in September of 2007. After this happened, we started having trouble. I wasn’t happy and neither was he. I never, ever even looked at another man, much less thought about cheating on him. We found out I was pregnant again in 2008. He had begun working at a company in Nashville and any other company I had always met the women he worked with and had no trouble with them. || I met Renee at his company Christmas party in 2008. We were both pregnant at the time and we were due around the same time, so I thought we’d have a lot to talk about and have in common. She wouldn’t look me in the eye or carry on more than a three word conversation with me. She was a bit younger than me, so at the time, I put it off to that. I watched her as the night went on and noticed that she would keep looking at my husband. I told him after that to stay away from her and that I knew she wanted him. My ex-husband would just laugh it off and tell me that was ridiculous. I told him I knew how women are and that I KNEW she was after him. || I had my second son in February of 2009. Renee (the whore) had her son just a couple of days prior to my son being born. NO her baby isn’t my ex-husbandís. She is white and her baby is mixed. I get that question A LOT. Her son was in the NICU, so she came down to visit while I was in labor and delivery. She sat with my husband on the couch in my room and flirted and laughed and barely spoke to me. When we left the hospital with our son, my husband proceeded to call me every name you could possibly imagine because I had”spoken harshly” to him in front of the nurse. Mind you, I had just delivered a baby via C-section after losing a baby a couple of years before. || February 2009 and on was just more or less fighting and that was about it. July 2009 had my husband having his usual party on the 4th. Renee was invited along with her brother and their children. The whole time they were there, when my back was turned my husband and she were flirting with each other. || My husband left in July of 2009. He left me with our three year old son and our five month old son. He really never looked back. He moved to the other side of Nashville, closer to where she lived at the time. I found his work truck at her apartment and all the while he told me he wasn’t cheating on me. I saw pictures of her son on Facebook with my husband. (Remember her son is only about three days older than our youngest son) He left in July of 2009 and I was served with divorce papers at my home in November of 2009. He didn’t spend any significant time with his children until March of 2010 – the first time we went to court. I never told him he couldn’t see them, be around them, or spend time with them. || Even after all of this was happening, he would still come home at times and we would be together. He never stayed the night, always going back to wherever he was living on the other side of town. He would come around and see our sonís ball games and whatnot. He eventually began bringing her son with him. Of course, her son calls him dad. I told him at one time, that he is more of a dad to her child than he is to his own children. They didn’t really know him and that our youngest called him dad simply because our oldest child called him that. || He moved out of state with Renee and her son in 2010. She took a job in Alabama and he followed her there. I asked him why he thought it was wise to move three hours away from him kids, but never got a response. They recently moved back to Tennessee, after they were both fired from their jobs – they worked at the same company, of course! || Our divorce was finalized in April of 2012. I found out that they actually got engaged in December of 2011. I knew she wasn’t a smart woman, but why would you get engaged to a man that is still married? They got married in June of 2013…had to wait for our divorce to be finalized, you see. As of today he pays his child support, he pays me alimony and he sees his children every other week. It’s tough and I never thought I could raise two kids on my own, but it hasn’t been all that bad. I’ve”regrown” my backbone, so to speak, and I’m great along with my two boys. The things I wonder to all of it is if her family had any idea of what was going on? Our marriage was hurting and she didn’t break it, but she DID pursue a married man all the same. I just can’t imagine what kind of marriage they could have, built on adultery and lies. || One kicker to all of this – in February of 2011, my youngest son had to have his tonsils removed. My husband’s whore’s brother had just died and they had traveled to Michigan for the funeral. I wasn’t aware that my ex had just driven however many hours to get back to Nashville before our son’s surgery. He had been taking some medications and had an allergic reaction to them. I couldn’t find him at one point so I went looking. I found him, basically unresponsive in his truck in the parking lot of the hospital and took him into the ER. I had no clue what was wrong with him, so I looked through his wallet, phone, anything really to see what was up. In the wallet, I found her credit card, gas receipts, and on the phone I found pics of her in a bed. He ended up in the ICU for the night and was basically unresponsive for about 24 hours. So, I had my 18 month old on one floor of the hospital and my (still at the time) husband in the ICU. I called his whore and asked her what he had been taking and she STILL denied everything. Basically, the doctors told me that had I not brought him back in the hospital and checked him in, he would have died. His breathing was that relaxed at the time from the reaction to the medications. All this happened, and the next day he told me he had been unfaithful to me.