My husband, Jose and I have been together since high school, so 12 years! We have three children together, a daughter who is 9 and twin boys who are 7. We have been through so much together that when we moved to SC from NJ, I thought things would finally be looking up. My husband started working at Buffalo Wild Wings in January. My best friend warned me that restaurants will ruin a marriage but I ignored her. I really thought things were perfect. Our marriage seemed so strong! Around March 1st my husband left his Facebook open and something told me to look. I saw a message to a girl named Samanatha asking how her eye was. She proceeded to talk and say oh its fine blah blah. Well I began typing to her oh, we will have to get together someday, you can meet my wife and Iíll meet your boyfriend. She said oh okay sounds cool. And that was that. I felt as though I had to make it clear that he was married. My husband never saw it because he never mentioned it. || Well March 15th rolled around and my husband never came home. 3 straight days and he wasn’t there. I would get random text messages from him saying Iím on my way there, Iím okay, Iím with the boys. I kept calling and texting back but no response. I was very worried. Well Monday rolled around so I decided to go online and check is call log. This number came up about 100times since January. (When he started working his new job) So I called this number long behold its Samanatha. My husband was right next to her eating lunch with her and her friends. She proceeded to laugh and say who the hell are you and you aren’t married to him anymore so leave us alone. Now mind you I just facebooked her acting like Jose saying you need to meet my wife. So she knew!! Jose hurried up and left and called me flipping out. Oh we are just friendís blah blah. This girl called me back cussing me out. I proceeded to tell her we were fine and he has been married since 2005 so wtf? She said that oh yall haven’t had sex in months and just so trashy and disgusting I was devastated. Well my husband came home trying to kiss on me and say oh nothing is going on. That next weekend he moved out. Him and this trashy hoe were staying with a roommate. She got tired of them after a week and kicked them out. They were then back and forth in hotels. He constantly kept coming home asking for money because he was hungry, he wanted to come home. I never told him to leave. He chose her. Mind you in all of these he decided not to pay any of our bills leaving me with an eviction notice on my door. I did not know he didn’t pay any of these things as he always paid them on time! I set up marriage counseling and he never showed up. Then I knew it was over. || Once I kicked him out and showed him it was over he wanted to pick up my children one day. Well low and behold he has a HUGE tattoo on his neck of the girls name Samantha in a puzzle piece. I was sickened. All these years and he only knew her since January and got a tattoo of her name on his neck! WTF!!! It was truly over. || In the meantime Samanatha was fired from BWW because she kept taking off to be with Jose. Now June rolls around and I am taking my kids to NJ for the summer so I can get our household back in order and they can have some fun. I get a text message from this girl Samantha. She has left Jose and took everything. She took the food out of the fridge stole all of the TVís and on top of it my daughters Ipod!!! She said I could have him back, she is sick of him because all he does is talk about having his family back and how he messed up. Oh wait a minute, this girl waited till I was 500 miles away to take my childrenís stuff!! She knew I would have beaten her ass. So I called my husband at worked and told him. He was upset but glad she left. Of course he wanted to come home, NOT HAPPENING!! So as the days go on his manager calls him in and says the girls here are sort of scared of you. He says why? Well samanatha keeps calling here saying that you beat her up and threw her down the stairs. WHAT!! Out of the 12 years me and him have been married he never put a hand on me! She was insane. They had furniture from Rent A Center and some other rental place and she called them up saying she had been abused by him and they shouldn’t go after her for any of the payments because she was abused. WHAT THE CRAP! || Apparently she does this to every boyfriend shes been with. Now where is Samantha now? She is back with her raggedy boyfriend in a trailer probably skeaming out the next man to take. From what I hear from her friends and brother she is a homewrecker and has wrecked before. She even slept with her own step father (words out of her own mouth) She is a demented individual and keep your husbandís away. || As for me and my husband, we are trying to become better friends for our children. Who knows what will happen, I have filed for divorce and letting God deal with the rest!