My story starts when my ex-husband and I had just gotten together, I was 19 he was 20. I had a friend named Sam, she dated my ex-husbands best friend. It worked out really well at first. I was looking to get a new tattoo I sent her a drawing she added to it and we went back and forth with that for a few weeks and finally got something we both liked and now I am stuck with a tattoo that has the reminder of her that I have to look at every single day.. || My ex and I decided we were going to move in together and get married (which for me meant a move to the other side of the country) I was so excited until Christmas Eve we were looking through our old pictures on his phone and we got to a ton of self-pictures of her, including half naked ones! I was furious and appalled, but he hurried to say”No baby she doesn’t hold a candle to you, I love you and only you, if I wanted to be with her I would be. You’re overreacting” And of course I believed him. The next day we made the trip, got married and not 5 days later did I find naked pictures of her in his phone! All he could say was how sorry he was and how stupid it was and that he won’t talk to her ever again. Again trying to save my marriage I believed him. || Fast forward a few months, our sex life had dwindled I would try he would say he had a long day at work or he didn’t feel like it. So I went through his phone and found a conversation that crushed me,” Sam I need you to need me I need to feel needed and important” she says”Isn’t that what your wife is for?” And his answer was”You know it’s not like that with is, you know that I don’t love her she’s just here for convenience” After months and months of fighting and a deployment, shortly after he left I thought I was pregnant he told me if I was I was either to have an abortion or be served divorce papers because he wasn’t ready for kids nor did he want them.. Thank god I wasn’t. || When he gets back he says he wants to work things out. I drove all the way across country he used me for sex and kicked me to the curb and we weren’t even divorced yet, only to find she was at my apartment with him in our bed and was pregnant with his child! But the bitch got what she deserved he sent her packing too! The photo below of her in the dress is her and my ex with his best friend.