Sammi Stefano Pensacola, Florida Florida

My fiancé and I had been together two years and after having been told we would never have children, I went back to school and started working on my degree. It was February 2011 when we found out we were expecting twins. Life was great, the pregnancy was rough but we managed. I was on hospital bed rest for 45 days prior to giving birth and in that time we lost our home. My fiancé LIVED at the hospital with me. Every waking moment he was there. We had the babies in September 2011. We were trying to get back on our feet. Our babies spent two weeks in NICU before being released, my recovery was traumatic, and I lost my grandfather the week this woman slept with my fiancé. Things between my fiancé and I were rocky. I had my suspicions he had fooled around on me, but he always swore he’d never betray me that way. We had come to a mutual agreement that neither of us would cause the other the heartbreak. If one of us were unhappy we’d be honest and just walk away. I guess t

My fiancé and I had been together two years and after having been told we would never have children, I went back to school and started working on my degree. It was February 2011 when we found out we were expecting twins. Life was great, the pregnancy was rough but we managed. I was on hospital bed rest for 45 days prior to giving birth and in that time we lost our home. My fiancé LIVED at the hospital with me. Every waking moment he was there. We had the babies in September 2011. We were trying to get back on our feet. Our babies spent two weeks in NICU before being released, my recovery was traumatic, and I lost my grandfather the week this woman slept with my fiancé. Things between my fiancé and I were rocky. I had my suspicions he had fooled around on me, but he always swore he’d never betray me that way. We had come to a mutual agreement that neither of us would cause the other the heartbreak. If one of us were unhappy we’d be honest and just walk away. I guess things aren’t that simple once you’ve had children and built a life together. || Anyhow, two long years pass and that is when I discovered the truth. There was email correspondence between him and this homewrecker he thought had been deleted but unfortunately for him only archived. I discovered the truth of this indiscretion July-August 2o13. At this point I am pregnant with his third child. Needless to say devastated doesn’t begin to describe the immense amount of hurt I’ve endured. || I contacted the homewrecker in hopes of getting answers. Clearly, however, it’s impossible to have a decent conversation with and ignorant whore. She admitted in some emails I found at 21 years old she’d slept with over 35 men. How many were taken? We will probably never know. But she 1oo% knew MY MAN was a taken man referring to him as ‘Mr. ENGAGED’ I think this woman got off on knowing she slept with a man that is off the market. HE is not innocent by a long shot but, I have committed myself to him in every sense of the word. She says in one email to me that ‘nowadays just cuz you have kids with someone doesn’t mean shit’ well let me make it clear, we hadn’t yet nor have we to this day taken our vows but the day we started our family is the day I knew my life was dedicated to him. As angry as I was at him for betraying me and lying about it for two years I chose to forgive as he sincerely asked for my forgiveness. He said it was the biggest mistake he’d ever made in his life. I didn’t forgive him for him however I did it for me. I’ve vowed not to throw it in his face and to truly forgive otherwise our family would be destroyed. I am too much of a fighter to allow my three beautiful children to come from a broken home. || I feel like since the incident was brought to light it was a chance to free himself from the burden of carrying it on his shoulders the rest of our lives together. Since the discovery our relationship has ironically gotten better and we are closer now than ever before. We are expecting our last baby the week of Thanksgiving and we couldn’t be happier. He expresses himself and communicates much better. Even displays his affection for me publicly which was a rare occurrence before. He tells me how much he loves me and I feel like we are able to rebuild on a solid foundation. || The home wrecker no longer lives in Pensacola, but in the St. Petersburg area I believe. She does however still come back to visit. Beware this woman gets so intoxicated she sometimes can’t remember what or who she’s done the night before. Her general view on life and lack of values make me ashamed to be a part of the generation I’m a part of. || I’ve written this just to get it off my chest so I can anonymously out this woman for what she truly is.

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