I have been with my man/husband for over 6 years. I recently found out about his infidelity with Sara Elizabeth Hall (Delano) age 46 of Rochelle Illinois, two days after we arrived home from a 10 day romantic vacation in Cancun Mexico. We were at the office, when his phone, which is the main phone for our business, beeped with a text message. The following is what the text read; Sara had sent him a text saying she missed his back rubs. Her number was saved as DO NOT ANSWER in his phone.Do Not Answer: I am happy you are home I have missed your back rubsMy Man: I am happy to be home I have missed your blowjobs and giving you a back rub.There were many more texts; however I didnít wait to read themÖ I should have. I confronted him, told him I was cleaning out our savings account and left.We own businesses in our home town; we have a blended family that includes 7 grandchildren. Everyone in town knows us; we own the local limo -transportation service, among other businesses. He would visit her when he wanted an extra blow job. How convenient she was. And she calls herself a good catholic. I bet her priest at (removed) in Rochelle would think differently.How they met: Sara called one night for a ride home, she drinks too much and often. After her first introduction to him she continued to pursue my man. She called one night last year when my man and I were on vacation for a ride and my daughter inadvertently gave her a taxi ride home! Sara knew without a doubt that she was destroying a family. I suspected that he was having an affair; however he convinced me that he wasnít. I want Sara to know that he used her, that he was using her for sex and was not truthful with her about anything. And Sara I know a secret about you! Remember that. Because every time I see you with someone I will expose your secret!Sara works in the marketing department of our local college. This affair has taken away a grandfather, a stepfather, a father, and a husband. Sara is indifferent to the whole thing and had planned on continuing the affair without any thought to those she was destroying. She felt that a friend with benefits is the perfect relationship for her with no empathy or remorse for those on the other side. This is not the first time she has perused another woman’s man. She has had several affairs with committed men in our small home town.The women of Rochelle need to know what kind of fake woman they are so called friends with. Sara Elizabeth Hall (Delano) age 46 of Rochelle Illinois is a Home wrecker. || At this time we are trying to reconcile as I do believe that he used Sara as an easy convenient free piece of ass. There is more to our relationship than his infidelity and it is worth trying to save it at least this once.